It's been less then a year, she actually left him (husband) for another one of his friends (she may still be seeing this guy)after he cheated on her...believe me this marriage was doomed from day 1...i saw her last weekend at a bar, and she was begging for it, no strings attached, just an open invite for a night of fun? Can I? should I? She is really hot and we do have a friendship of sorts...i just don't know?
2007-01-03 11:19:47 · 20 answers · asked by Doctor J. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i didn't do it ...it's is very springer show, and my friend hasn't called me in 3 months, i've known him for 10+ years, he doesn't talk to anyone right now...can you blame him?
2007-01-03 11:43:16 · update #1
take it easy collene and sally...why do you assume she's a total whore?
2007-01-03 11:45:03 · update #2
His infidelity does not give you the right to sleep with her. But if you really want to, then ask him or at least feel him out. Also it sounds like she is making the rounds...so protect yourself. Lastly, if you have to ask, then you have a moral issue on your hands and if you don't know the answer then the answer is no you shouldn't.
2007-01-03 11:26:28 · answer #1 · answered by sammiejane67 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends on how good of friends you are with your friend and how much drama you want / need in your life.
Can you? Yes.
Should you? No.
A friend's ex is always off limits in my opinion. That aside, even if it's just a booty call, this woman undoubtedly will have cooties at some point, if she doesn't already. Nothing is worth that to me. I know that guys are different and she was begging you...but ewww...I'd pass if I were you. She's needy and trying to prove that she's still got it...whatever.
Pass.
2007-01-03 11:41:34 · answer #2 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh..NO!! Don't be so desperate. One of my old friends is a ho and she has a disease and she sleeps with everyone and never tells them. She makes me sick. You are asking for the same trouble the dudes with her got, They were thinking like you think. She was easy and beautiful. I 'm sorry it really makes me gross out. I think of the girls those guys slept with after her and the next crowd they all slept with. They should all have a gang called "Bumpy Stank". Seriously though, you shouldn't unless your friendship with her ex means nothing to you. The story about my old friend is true. I say old because we don't hang no more. All yall should be scared.
2007-01-03 11:49:46 · answer #3 · answered by Melissa M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now you know how difficult the relationship would be between you and your friend. Why would you want to hurt him ? He really needs to reevaluate his friendship with you, a real friend would not do this. I am sure there are other "hot" girls in your city, why her ? Is one night with her worth losing a friend over ?
2007-01-03 11:26:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as her divorce has been final she is able to "hook up" with whomever she wants...You might want to use protection though since it sounds like she "hooks up" with quite a few...BTW HPV (genetial herpes) is spread by skin to skin contact and the "host" may not be aware they have it for 10-15 years since they don't have to have an outbreak to be infectious. Condoms are of no help when it comes to the spread of HPV...Food for thought.
2007-01-03 11:25:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
guess if you like sleeping with a whore who has no values or morals and you don't care the you are essentially sleeping with every single person she has slept with (and it is probably lots of them) then go for it. You will be at the same level of low life scum that she is.
2007-01-03 11:41:32 · answer #6 · answered by Sally B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only if you don't care about your friendship with her ex-husband. Because there's a good chance that he'll find out.
2007-01-03 11:42:43 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me it would really depend on how good of friends you are (were) with her ex if your not best buds then i dont see any reason why not , just dont let any woman (or man in some peoples cases ) get in the way of a good friendship
2007-01-03 11:24:33 · answer #8 · answered by lildomenk 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do what makes u happy. if you can really trust in her for just friendship an a night of fun. what cha gonna do if she falls for ya? hard to trust someone who has a past like hers.
2007-01-03 11:26:48 · answer #9 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guess, she and you just want to have fun. Make sure this is no FATAL Attraction. Good luck. If you take relationship seriously, FORGET IT.
2007-01-03 11:50:29 · answer #10 · answered by j t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋