is it normal that i am 14 and have never been kissed? i've never even had a boyfriend before! i've been told that i am really pretty and am nice, and guys have had crushes on me, so why don't they ask me out?
2007-01-03 11:09:25 · 26 answers · asked by Surfergirl 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No clue on why the guys won't ask you out.
It is very normal that you are 14 and never been kissed.
It's a highly respectable attribute.
I myself have never been kissed and I'm 17.
I can't take more time to answer this question cause I have to go, but I have answered a similar question that has pretty much the same answer.
Hey Surfergirl, in response to your message at the end of your answer in my question-
I can't answer if you don't ask it, and I can't answer it within 8 hours of 4 oclock eastern time jan 4th.
Hey, email me if you want me to answer stuff,
my address is on my answers profile.
2007-01-04 08:57:19 · answer #1 · answered by rambocommandodude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I've never had a boyfriend and never, never received an intimate kiss from any boy before in my life, either, AND I'M 18!!!!!
Don't let things like this get you down at such an early age! I'm sure you're very pretty, but right now I think it's best for you to focus on your studies and building a future for yourself. There will be plenty of time for you to share intimacy with a special someone in the future, so don't let something so insignificant as this bug you. Like yourself, I've had many boys complementing me on my physic and what not(sometimes rudely, and many times politely) but don't let this get to your head. You're lucky these boys appreciate you for who you are and not just regard you as a mere sex symbol, as some wicked boys/man did to me. Anyways, I wish you all the best in the future. Hope you succeed in your studies and find someone special in your life!
All the best! Good luck!
2007-01-03 19:24:36 · answer #2 · answered by positive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety you're only 14! It's ok! You shouldn't be worrying about this. You will respect yourself a lot more if you wait. Your first kiss should be special and you should remember it and the younger you are you have a better chance of forgetting it. I was a little younger than you when I had mine, and I don't even remember who it was! I regret that to this day. It will happen someday, just enjoy being a kid right now!
2007-01-03 19:17:43 · answer #3 · answered by sqky15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just fine. There's not a certain age that you have to have your first kiss by. I didn't have mine till I was 18. Don't be in such a hurry to get a boyfriend either. Having one is great, but you miss out on a lot during your teen years. When the right guy comes along you'll know it!
2007-01-03 19:12:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, you're only 14. That's not really very old. I didn't get mine until I was 15. And why aren't they asking you out? Because they're *14*. Let's be frank... guys at that age are often pretty shy around girls, not to mention more immature than girls (and no reasonable guy will deny this. It's a scientifically proven fact). Don't worry about it.
2007-01-03 19:15:33 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its abnormal, weird, or crazy. The first kiss is something thats like sweet. But i believe it has to be with someone that actually likes you. Crushes are nothing. Guys will not make the first move if its their first. Don't be the one that takes the kiss be the one that gives the kiss.
2007-01-03 19:13:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anniee. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was 17 when i had my first kiss and i think im gawjus dahlink! but your fine, at your age and yes your a young adult and are beginning to feel and experience things. dont rush it when the right guy comes along you'll no it and it will be worth the wait i promise, if you rush it and pick the first guy that comes along just think if he is a creep, you'll always remember him as the first guy you kissed, and it will probibly be nasty and sloppy! yuck. your lucky to still have the chance to have a "first time" even when it comes to the big you no what, make it memorable and special and make sure the other person is worthy to be blessed to have been your first anything.
love always envy
2007-01-03 19:15:42 · answer #7 · answered by envyme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they are intimidated by you.
You can't always expect people to tell you're sweet, you're nice, you're pretty
You have to believe it yourself
You should not depend on other people's compliments to feel secure within yourself
I'm 16 and i have never been kissed
You are not weird just because you have not been kissed and that does not mean you're ugly
wait for the right guy
2007-01-03 19:15:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not necessarily a bad thing either. The longer you wait the more significant your first kiss will be. The best thing to do is make sure you are really in love with the person you do decide to kiss because it will make your first kiss that much more special.
2007-01-03 19:12:13 · answer #9 · answered by AngryAmerican82 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
they may be to shy to ask u out but thats ok u can always ask them and yes its normal to be 14 and never kissed my little brother is 16 and nevered kissed so hang in there
2007-01-03 19:12:51 · answer #10 · answered by venita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋