Okay, I have like really small boobs, well at least i do for my age. and every guy i meet always says he loves me, and they say that i have a nice body and a nice *** and stuff. but when a girl with bigger boobs walkes by, they just stare. and they get horny and sh*t. it seems that no guy really likes me because im the only girl in my grade who hasn't developed yet. at all. what could i do to make them bigger or just speed up the process or something? all my friends bother me cuz i have small ones, and it really gets to me. it really makes me self consious. oh and btw, im not 18 or over, so no plastic sergury answers please. thanks! and also, no answers taht say that i should gain weight, cuz i dont want to. i like my weight.
2007-01-03 11:08:50 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Honey, it's just not true that men and boys only like big boobs. I have large breasts, and by the age of 11 I was a 36 C.
Sure, guys stared at me, but it was either in a creepy horrible way, or in a "Oh my God! She looks like a circus freak!" way, or they just looked scared and intimidated. Maybe 5% of boys my own age looked at them in a nice, flattering, admiring way.
Now I'm grown up and a 42DDD, I'd say maybe 20% of guys are really into big boobs. That's a big majority that either don't care, or prefer small or average ones.
You sound like you're pretty and have a nice figure and get plenty of guys, so you have nothing to worry about.
PS I'm so jealous you've got a nice butt! Mine is as flat as pancake and makes my boobs even more noticeable.
2007-01-03 17:10:52 · answer #1 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I say that you should just wait until you develop them and that you shouldn't take drugs or enhancements. If boys stare at other girls with bigger boobs then they're horny and they don't deserve you because you're better than that. If you have friends that tease you about you not being fully developed then they aren't really friends. You can just wait and find better people that don't care if you're not fully developed. I mean look at other girls in other schools around your age. Some of them aren't fully developed either. If you find a guy and a bunch of friends that like you for who you are then they are true friends and they are the only ones that matter. You don't need to be fully developed now so just ignore the ones that tease you or the boys that look at other girls with bigger boobs than you.
2007-01-03 21:32:05 · answer #2 · answered by MaD.HaTTeR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is just natural for a man to look at bigger breasted women, it is a visual thing with some of them. I have small boobs myself and I am way older than you are...also self consious about that too. Don't worry, if you are with someone, they are with you because of you and not the visual aspect.
I have been married and had a few men, but they always uplifted my spirit by making me feel better about myself and being with me because of me.
Would you have a guy with you just because of your chest size? or because of the person you are?
2007-01-03 16:08:42 · answer #3 · answered by Trese 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah don't worry about that. You dont wanna be with a guy who only wants you for your ta-ta's, nor your *** or any of your sexy body features, trust me. its the mind and heart that matters these days. Listen, if you want big boobs, got 'em and you end up marrying a guy who loves you mainly for your ta-dah's, whats gonna happen when they start going down south or when they see another woman when big ones? That's right, they'll leave or cheat. I am sure you are a beautiful girl and with a great mind. The right guy who'll love you unconditionally and wont wanna change a thing about ya will come around, just you wait
But if this is something YOU want, not just be attractive to others, i've been told soymilk works
2007-01-03 12:48:58 · answer #4 · answered by maddywoo13 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
well breasts dont stop growing till your early to mid 20s anywas. im 19 and i have small boobs. who cares! be happy the way you are! and its ot true... not all guys like big boobs as they always say "anything more than a handful is just a waste" which seems true.. my bf doesnt like large breasts.. plus a guy shoudl like you the way you are. not for ehat you look like. if they are judging you by your breast size then they are shallow and a waste of yoru time.. the only think that can make your breasts larger is to gain alot of weight which sometimes work. but if you loose it you may also loose the boobs.. lol.. or you can get pregnant whichi dont advise at all at your age.. im sure you agree to that/ lol also birth contorl pills can make your breats larger. they have for me. ive been on the pill for 2 years and ive went up a cup size.
but breast size really depends on your genetics inthe family. your body develops at its own pace adn ther is nothign you can do to speed it up . and just ignore your friens. all of my friends had large boobs and the guys would be all over them.! just ignore your friends. they shouldnt be making you feel that way in the first place/..
but just be happy the way you are! the right guy will come along and genuinely love you for you, not for your physical appearance
2007-01-03 12:56:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Guys naturally like girls with big boobs, because large breasts are sexy and feminine. And the only way for a girl your age to get bigger breasts is to eat more and gain weight. I know you don't want to hear that, but it's the only way - and it might help you in other ways, since a lot of guys like women with meat on their bones.
2007-01-03 15:05:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good commonly most men decide upon a C-cup, however it's all in the eye of the beholder. If you already know you might be sizzling, and in case you like the way you appear-then no one, without doubt no person, must trade what you already like about your self. Getting breast implants is a individual thing, and the decision must best be yours. Be robust, and stand your ground. He must love you for who you are. In the end, he became your boyfriend without changing a single thing on your physique...
2016-08-10 06:24:03 · answer #7 · answered by faim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some day you'll find out that the size of your boobs doesn't matter. Also, there are plenty of guys that like small boobs. You can be beautiful regardless, and teenagers often have difficulty seeing this.
2007-01-04 05:04:28 · answer #8 · answered by straightup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone developes at a different age. Unfortuately there's no way to enhance them during puberty, but I'm sure they will grow soon enough.
But, I have heard of people with bigger ones that are miserable because of sores and pains. Lots of people want smaller ones.
But, fair enough, if your breasts don't enlarge until you're even an adult, let's face it, no breast cancer!
2007-01-04 17:27:59 · answer #9 · answered by ///DW-Drummer/// 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about it, you're a late bloomer, nothing wrong with that. If all those guys only like you for your breasts, do you really want to be with them? Think about it in the long run, even if you get super big breasts, somebody will always be bigger; so if you marry somebody who likes you only for your breasts, chances are they won't stick around long. I would wait for a guy who likes you for you and not your body. As for your friends, just ignore them. If they are true friends, they wouldn't make you feel bad, and if they don't know that they are bothering you, tell them.
2007-01-03 12:13:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋