I am 30 year old male. I am not married and have been single for quite a while. For a number of years now I been dreaming that I have a daughter. The dreams seem so real. When I was 19 I had "relations" with a 24 year old. I used a condom but the darn thing kind of slipped half way off.
When I was 21 the same thing happend with another female.
Years passed and i have not really tried to look for either of them. But those dreams are hauting me each time. Could I be a dad? Is there a way to find out? Is there a place or a website that can give me some answers? Like birth records??
2007-01-03 11:03:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if you have kids with those two ladies they will be looking for you like a criminal just to get some child support from you
2007-01-03 11:15:49 · answer #1 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you should try to track down both these women, instead of looking for the children they may or may not have had. Try contacting any phone numbers or emails you had for them, their families, any friends you had in common, the school registrar for the college they may have attended, their former employers. Let these people know that you mean no harm, you're just trying to get in touch with them and relay a message to them.
It is possible that you did father a child - how well did you know these women, would they have been able to find you and notify you if they got pregnant, would they have been the type to tell you?
It's also equally possible that you were lucky, and did not leave these women pregnant as you rode off into the sunset. Perhaps your dreams are a subconcious yearning, a sign that you are ready to grow up and start a family of your own.
First make sure if your "accidents" caused any pregnancies or sexual infections, take responsibility for whatever happened, and prepare for the next stage in your life.
2007-01-03 19:21:26 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything is possible. Could be a future child that your dreaming about too you never know. Is there any way you can get into contact with these women?
2007-01-03 20:06:28 · answer #3 · answered by Momof1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your probably not a father because the chicks haven't hunted you down for support. Your dreams probably indicate that you want to have kids
2007-01-03 19:12:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u find the girls u dated and see if they had kids.
DNA test will prove if u are the father.
But, your dream probably means u need to find a wife now
and have children soon.
2007-01-03 19:07:20 · answer #5 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at that time if you make your partner pregnant for sure she will tell but no news was given to you that time so for sure you did not make them pregnant if you want a child try to get onother relationship and tell the woman you want a child with her easy.
2007-01-04 06:42:21 · answer #6 · answered by lina i 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that if you were the mothers would find you
2007-01-03 19:15:05 · answer #7 · answered by azehriad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her head
2007-01-04 12:06:29 · answer #8 · answered by Not all that good, like it seems 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋