my friend s daughter is in love with alex pettyfer( alex rider kid) and he is 16 and she is 12 he is in london she is in sf and she is desperate what should my friend and i do ? can you give advice
2007-01-03 10:43:09 · 4 answers · asked by Lyra 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
by the way he is in a movie and he is supposedly a model
2007-01-03 12:01:59 · update #1
I can understand her - He's hot. Anyway. She will probably understand after a while that she probably never will be together with him. You can always tell her the real facts too, you know, like that he's way older than her, he lives in London(if she does too, don't), she doesn't even know him etc. By the way, she will probably get pissed. I know I would have.
2007-01-05 02:45:16 · answer #1 · answered by sunny_marika 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 be honest there is nothing you can do. why I'm i saying this bcoz the more you try to control a child the more they drift away from you. if you don't want to lose this vulnerable child then stand back and watch just try and show her that you care and give her all the support she needs when she needs it other than that there is nothing you can do sorry if that's not the answer you were expecting
2007-01-03 19:02:26 · answer #2 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, 12 yr. olds fall in love every 20 minutes. She needs to learn that not everything goes as planned and to get over it.
2007-01-03 18:56:49 · answer #3 · answered by angelfmfo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not necessarily love , she is attached because he treats her nice maybe , so if she finds this kindness in her friends that will help her, once she stops seeing him she will forget , out of sight out of mind ,, good luck
2007-01-03 19:01:04 · answer #4 · answered by homesick33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋