I'm seeing someone long distant, he called me but I was busy so didn't answer, bout 40mins later, I sent him a text saying "Hey, Call me. x" And I sent that text bout 8 hours ago and he hasn't called me. What's worse, I saw that he was online on MSN messenger and he didn't even send me a message. I know he got that text message, I'm supposed to be going down to see him on 19th Jan, thinking bout cancelling the whole thing to gain more respect maybe. What's he playing at? Does he want to be in control?! If he wasn't interested, he wouldn't have called me earlier on!.
2007-01-03 10:39:42 · 13 answers · asked by Jessica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Soz guys, but I don't hate men, it was to get your attention. Anywayz, he hardly calls me, that's why I didn't answer!.
2007-01-03 10:50:54 · update #1
i agree
do whatever your intuiton tells you to do
i hate that though
i understand
2007-01-03 10:42:00 · answer #1 · answered by chanti 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ok, let's try the positive sides first. Could he have been busy for 8 hours, maybe calling you to let you know he wouldn't be able to be reached for awhile? And could he have accidentally left his computer on this whole time and not really be there? A little coincidental, but maybe....... On the other hand, yeah, I've had that done to me and let me tell you right now, he is definitely not worth it. They aren't even worth it if they live a block over, DEFINITELY not worth it when it's long distance! Lose him! And don't let him try to explain his way out of it, because when he see's he's not in control, he will turn this around to make you look like the bad guy. DON'T LET HIM!! Lose him girl! You have plenty of others within dating distance. ANd yes, guys are dogs.....MOSTLY. But take it from someone who dated every breed of dog out there. You will find a good one as long as you don't settle. I did. And now I'm mutt free! And I doubt you would be this angry and hurt if this was a first offense so I'd say he's done this before to you, and probably explained his way out. DROP HIM! Go make someone else's life bright instead of his. Don't let him treat you like that!
2007-01-03 10:57:57 · answer #2 · answered by #1 Buckeye Fan!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
I already know I won't get a best anything out of this answer, but why do you and other women persist in insisting that all men are this or that and are all the same.
That is an extremely stupid and assuming statement to make as you do not know all men and with that kind of attitude, if you are lucky enough to meet a nice guy, he will probably not want anything to do with you because of your radical biased attitude.
Your hatred will spill out and spoil everything you touch.
For your sake, hope you and many others females finally learn that not all men are the same, anymore than all women are the same.
Darryl S.
2007-01-03 11:01:41 · answer #3 · answered by Stingray 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Jessica,
I feel for you,but you found a Looser,just take your Time,I think you are nice and sincere,It will come to you,Start your New Year on a good Note,I wish you all the Best,and I wish that Love and Happiness comes your Way soon,and you will be able to forget the Pain,I think you are sweet,good Luck,Karl
2007-01-03 10:57:40 · answer #4 · answered by karl s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen girl...just do what you need to do, dont let him take you for a fool or have you the way he wants you...why should he have all the control here, he needs to show a little more respect to you, you both need to talk about things seriously.
2007-01-03 10:54:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is a bit of a dance
know that there are 3 billion men out there
if you don't like that stuff
pick another
it is as easy as
"next"
but maybe you like that junk from people
in life
1. you dont always get what you want
2. you always get what you get
3. and you always get what you tolerate
2007-01-03 12:41:02 · answer #6 · answered by darling 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why was it okay that you were too busy to answer when he tried to call but it's not okay that maybe he is too busy. Why don't you stop looking for problems that are not there. Be honest with him and ask him why he didn't call? Let him answer you instead of "guessing".
2007-01-03 10:47:18 · answer #7 · answered by Judy K 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
long distance drama???? forget about it....there are way to many people online playing games with their lives and other peoples lives. don't waste your time. i did the online thing once and decided that online daters tend to be more deceptive than the average guy you meet in a bar.... just my opinion
2007-01-03 10:47:18 · answer #8 · answered by The Key Master 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Relax----right now you are not his #1 priority in life. Perhaps your visit will change that. Give him a chance. It's only been 8 hours. Next time he calls don't call him right back...I know it's hard, I know you want to ---but right now you need to be cool...
2007-01-03 10:46:23 · answer #9 · answered by Mythical Creature 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
He's busy now. Don't worry, the 19th is days away. Don't over react.
2007-01-03 10:42:46 · answer #10 · answered by angelfmfo 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, next time answer your damn phone. It is just about control with you isn't it? Think about that; he probably did! And hate only hurts the hater!
2007-01-03 10:44:49 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋