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Do you think that I would be impressed by your physical appearance, or your general aura? How does one tell the difference between arousal and admiration?

2007-01-03 10:35:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities Philosophy

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I have been told so. Don't know about you, though: maybe you like men.

2007-01-03 10:43:17 · answer #1 · answered by hopflower 7 · 0 0

Its OK, its certainly isn't bad, but its not impressive.

I have to be doing well somewhere so general aura I may be cool with.

Right, now the interesting part of the question. "How does one tell the difference between arousal and admiration?"

Man I have seen some of the most bueatyful women in the world and been unable to take my eyes off them, just the form the curves, the smile the eyes, everything shining with such incredible bueaty and not been at all turned on. Other times the same thing has happened and the chemisty is going all kinds of wild and I am as horny as a kid on prom night. Sometimes its just there. On the other hand I have met girls who physicaly I didn't find all that atractive but I have an uncontrolable urge to rip all their clothes off and as far as I can work it out it comes down to a slightly diferent question. What do you think is sexy and what do you think is bueatyful?

For me sexy is all in the eyes, the expression and the way a girl moves her body. I like a girl to be free spirited not too rigid, to be at home with her body.

What I think is bueatyful is to do with the hair, the aparent lack of effort (although girls tell me even this takes allot of effort) breasts not too big and a firm ***. A dancers abbs and thighs. A dress that magicaly stays in place.

You need both to really make it work and the sooner you figure out what it is that you really like the easier it will be to get what you really want. It also take a few suprises, what you like may well not be what you expect. I have met some girls that I first thought were not at all my type and they have gone on to totaly change my perception of both bueaty and sexyness.

Once all this is done though, dont forget that you have actually got to get on with this person. This is a whole other aspect to atraction that can be very very confusing and I wish I know the answers to it. I have convinced myself that I actually like someone just because I find them atractive many times and it always ends badly. I think though, that as I learn so much of what I find sexy is what I know I will get allong with.

2007-01-03 19:52:45 · answer #2 · answered by The Dude 3 · 0 0

Hmm...I don't know if I should feel creaped out by this question or not...

Is my nude body impressive? Well, I'd like to think so. I'm a tall, slender 20-something with long blonde hair. I play volleyball and work out at the gym on an almost daily basis, so I'm in really good shape. How's that sound?

As for admiration and arousal, both are just natural instincts. It is like love--you can't really describe what love is, but when you love someone you just know it.

I kinda like it when I can tell someone admires me, whether it is for my looks, my brains, my skills on the volleyball court, or whatever. It makes me feel special. If someone is aroused by me that that someone isn't my boyfriend then that is just creapy.

2007-01-05 17:36:17 · answer #3 · answered by spikeit 5 · 0 1

Who said that arousal means only one thing? It has countless of forms...Ultimately arousal and admiration is One block somehow divided by restless humans. One cannot exist without other and manifesting in different forms... Any nude body is impressive...igniting feelings you are experiencing and not just an arousal as you understand that. Sometimes quite an opposite feelings aroused... impression ,depression ,repression, expression is One family all of listed initiating feelings in different directions and forms...

2007-01-03 20:04:45 · answer #4 · answered by Oleg B 6 · 0 0

Probably not although I'm ok with it.

2007-01-03 18:44:35 · answer #5 · answered by ♫ giD∑■η ♫ 5 · 0 0

I am very happy with so...

2007-01-03 20:16:14 · answer #6 · answered by alan m 2 · 0 0

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