How do I get my husband to pay some kind of attention to me?

Answer 1

Leave with the girls for a night out...dress up and make him wonder. Sounds like he is taking you for granted.

Answer 2

If you want to get attention from your husband, think of the times before you started dating. What did you do to get his attention originally? What you did to get his attention the first time is what you need to do to keep his attention. Men are physical while women are more emotional. Try changing you daily routine at home. Think about the clothes you wear to bed. If you wear sweats, his not going to give you any extra attention. Now if you were to wear a tight tank top and some boxers or nothing at all, what would your husband reaction be then? Try to all give him some attention also. Myself personally I love when my wife babies me or just does simple things to take care of me. Something so simple like bringing me a cold drink while I'm working in the garage means so much to me. Treat others how you except to be treated.

Answer 3

How about how not to get your husbands attention Nagging and complaining.Try talking to him,tell him you want to do something together,plan a date ,rent a movie,or better yet turn off the TV and find out what has been going on over the last few weeks.Communication is key to a lot of problems people have in their marriage and if they would just learn to talk,it would go a long way to helping their situations.

Answer 4

You can't make someone pay attention to you if there heart isn't in it. Set him down and find out what his problem is, but everyone needs attention from their spouse. Ask him why he never pays attention to you and find out because you can't live with someone that completely ignores you. There has to be something going on with him, either he is worried about his work, another woman or he just really doesn't want to be married to you. If he refuses to talk to you, you need to move on with your life and find someone that loves you and he must have loved you at the start, because he paid attention when he said I do.

Answer 5

Start being sweet all the time, stop nagging, griping and all your high expectattions, and get your self so busy that you don't even notice if he is home or not, stay busy, and be dressed up all the time, dolled up, then when he thinks you are seeing somone else, he is going to try to win you back. Back off of him
The book Love must be Tough by James Dobson has guidelines for trouble marraige situations for wives to change something about themselves for husband to notice.

Answer 6

If he's not paying attention to you then there's something going on within the marriage that needs to be addressed.

Answer 7

I hate to say this maybe---The thrill is gone.I have never had that problem,you need to sit down and figure out what you can live with and without.Then sit him down and tell him what you have decided.Then stick to what you want and hope he will try to respect your feelings.Everyone needs attention and love. What's a marriage without it?Do what makes you happy, he seems to not care,,,

Answer 8

Pay attention to him first. Sometimes it's the best way.

Answer 9

If your starving for attention that tells me there is more to the story. a husband doesn't keep himself busy and away from his wife's needs if he loves her and cares about her.

Answer 10

Pack your bags and leave. IF that doesn't get his attention focused on you, then keep going, there is someone out there who will give you the attention you deserve.

Answer 11

Stand naked in front of the TV. hahaha... J/k! Me and my husband play board games and watch movies and do other stuff more like friends than anything else.