sounds dumb, but i need some advice please!!!?

Question

okay im really into this guy and he's the same back...so im comfortable around him, he wants to eat me out and i was wondering, about the good and the bad things that would make him stop...and what would make him want to start? obviously im a little bit nervous cause i don't know if he'll like wat i 'look' like or w/e...yea i know it sounds stupid but i'd like some answers please :/

thanks!

we've been seeing each other for over 2 years already and we've done pretty much everythin' but sex, which we're not going to do till marrige

haha u guys r funny, i know everything about im, and i have returned the favor, im 20 yrs old so im not too young, i just waited for a while, also he is also a virgin just like me mk!

Answer 1

Only one thing you MUST do: be yourself.

Answer 2

Just try it and stop being so nervous. Despite what Jesus freaks say, sex is normal and should be stress free. As long as you are open and honest about what you do or do not like it all sort of falls into place. Just don't let other peoples moral hang ups screw you up like so many people are.

Answer 3

Be clean. Have taken a shower or better a bath today, especially after you have done a deuce. Make sure you are well trimmed (do that before the bathing). Enjoy yourself, and whatever you do, don't cross your legs quickly (watch the film "Chasing Amy" to see what I mean).

Answer 4

Your into each other? That doesn't sound like a relationship and if he wants to do it for you can you imagine how many other girls he eats!! Think about it, just because he's offering, doesn't make him clean. Diseases can be passed orally in case you didn't already know that.

Answer 5

1. Be sure this is a long term relationship, preferably marriage!
2. Get a hand-held mirror
3. Look at yourself 'down there'
4. Be familiar enough and comfortable enough with your own body to enjoy the experience!

Answer 6

LOL not an easy topic to bring up so YOU"RE BRAVE to do so!

Um yeah. he'd want to because you'd enjoy it and he'd like that he's making you happy.. unless he's an idiot that's honestly only in it for himself so he'll go down on you for like a minute and expect you to return the favor tenfold tho. good luck. If you're not ready then tell him not to and if he doesnt respect that then forget him.. there's plenty of men who will.

Answer 7

Just make sure you clean yourself down there if you know he's going to do it. It's uncomfortable for a guy to enjoy pleasuring a woman when the girl is not very clean.

Answer 8

You sound too young to be having intimate relations with anyone. It's not something you plan. He either wants to, or he doesn't. You are putting way too much thought into it.

Answer 9

have more respect for yourself.
Wake up - there is no such thing as safe sex.
there is no such thing as security in a casual sexual relationship.

per your additional details - it would have helped if you had made your situation clear the first time.

since you have "already returned the favour", yet you say you haven't had sex yet - you'd be wrong.

Answer 10

For your (or his) first time, 1) invite him 'down there' after a shower. You should be fresher at that time. 2) trim the hedges just a little, but not enough to give him razor burn

Answer 11

make sure you take a nice shower and shave up. No one likes a hairy muff! Or a smelly one for that matter...otherwise, take it as a compliment, not all men like to do it.