I am trying to call of my wedding but always stop short because i dont want to hurt my bf.If i resort to moving out of our place and leaving a note do you think that would be better or worse?
2007-01-03 08:50:38 · 12 answers · asked by amalia R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Also can i take the dog we adopted together i really love that dog and i took care of it the most?
2007-01-03 08:53:43 · update #1
Sorry but someone will always be hurt. I feel even you will be hurt. But you must do what is in your heart and if this wedding is not right for you then know you are doing the right thing.
2007-01-03 08:53:34 · answer #1 · answered by Snicklefritz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not going to be able do call off a wedding without hurting someone (even the person paying for it will be cringing like hell).
However, it's better to spread a little hurt around now and avoid a terrible mistake. Your only other choice would be to spare everyone now but then put them through hell until you get a divorce.
You should be sure about entering into a marriage. If you're not, then don't.
2007-01-03 09:00:22 · answer #2 · answered by lilrubberducky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will be hurt probably crushed in fact ;there is no way he wont but you need to go into damage control after all the closer you get to the day the more people that will be hurt (family) as for the dog who knows he may not want the reminder of you and be only to pleased for you to take it ,If not go buy a puppy .
2007-01-03 09:06:54 · answer #3 · answered by slick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
worse
talk to him and let him know
i know it would hurt a little but a lot better than just leaving a note and not saying anything
cause calling off a wedding effects him as well so its better to tell him then leave him hanging
2007-01-03 09:07:47 · answer #4 · answered by MightyHyphy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel you need to do this in a letter then you shouldnt be getting merried.You need to talk this out,face it.The longer you let this go the worse things will get.You are the one who changed your mind you should be able to talk about how you feel.Its sad for him but life must move on.Good luck
2007-01-03 08:57:00 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better to talk to him now and break up with him face to face than deal with a divorce later. A divorce will be much worse and hurt more people because you will be considered family.
Goodl uck to you.
2007-01-03 14:05:26 · answer #6 · answered by I'm Trying 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone gonna get hurt - if you are going to back out of the wedding, sooner is better than later...
2007-01-03 08:55:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to start acting like an adult here....sit down and have a serious conversation with your fiance....tell him what you want to do......if you don't want to marry him...dont...but stop the drama...good luck
2007-01-03 08:57:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO some one will get hurt. Thats just the way it is.
2007-01-03 08:55:04 · answer #9 · answered by Chris F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will be hurt, but what would be worse is....if he didn't care.
I think you should be a WOMAN about it and face him.....It's only right!!...Good Luck.
2007-01-03 09:00:54 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋