she looks like skin and bones and that's a turn-off for me.
2007-01-03 08:37:59 · 15 answers · asked by Zekester 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
why is she so skinny? does she try to stay that small, or is it her metabolism? if she tries to stay that small, why don't you talk to her about it? there may be some sort of self-confidence issues that are causing her to worry about her weight and give her the need to stay that skinny. if so, make sure she knows how beautiful you think she is. she has to be sure of that before she'll be willing to make any changes to gain weight. it's a rare woman that agrees to gain weight, even for her husband. you could find books and articles that may help her as well.
if she just has an amazing metabolism, slip her some extra calories every day. ;)
2007-01-03 08:45:55 · answer #1 · answered by amsweet212 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To gain weight, your wife should increase the number of calories in her daily diet by about 300 calories. These extra calories should be part of a balanced diet. She should have larger size helpings of food at meals and keep nutritious snacks readily available. More information at http://www.toloseweight.org/gainweight.html
2007-01-05 07:36:27 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, as long as she's happy by how she looks you shouldn't be modifying her body. Talk to her about her body - ask if she's comfortable by the way she looks. Maybe you could BOTH work this out. And it really doesn't matter if it's a turn-off, you can't change the way she looks just because it doesn't turn YOU on. It's her body.
2007-01-03 16:44:30 · answer #3 · answered by cristaline 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make her alot of meaty dinners with potatoes and ect. Dont make her so fat she gets depressed lol.
Make sure she eats three meals a day
but dont do this if she is happy with her weight.
And only wants to do it for you
you met her the way she is
so it shouldnt be a turn off
2007-01-03 17:09:31 · answer #4 · answered by rayannchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i would trade places with her in a heart beat. I am 5'4 120 lbs and very curvy and would love to be stick skinny. However, my boyfriend loves my curves, so maybe that's a guy thing. Maybe you should make her eat more fatty foods and no exercise?
2007-01-03 16:41:02 · answer #5 · answered by Caterina C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wine and dine her she will eat more.Order her meal for her.Woman like it when you take them to a nice restaurant and order for them.Make sure you know what she wants.If you can't afford taking her out make a full course meal for her and feed the food to her and whisper sexy thoughts in her ear, then make passionate love to her.In return your getting what you want so is she........romance.
2007-01-03 16:52:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a very thankless person to God.Look at the bright side when she be appear much younger at old age, and virtually free from chronic diseases, and she will take good care of you.
2007-01-03 16:43:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by not calling her names. Maybe by accepting her as she is and getting off her back about it, it won't be such a big deal and she'll feel like taking care of herself. She probably feels your disapproval and that doesn't help.
2007-01-03 16:41:01 · answer #8 · answered by silhouet57 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take her out to dinner, but junk food, etc. You should let her look how she wants, because she might feel great.
2007-01-03 16:42:57 · answer #9 · answered by .:Blair:. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take her to the doctor because she needs medical help.
2007-01-03 17:28:40 · answer #10 · answered by Nancy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋