We've been together for 8 months, the first month he used to call all the time, he did everything possible for me he was very nice to me and I was good to him too. Then he stopped calling and texting but was only receiving my calls ( he seemed happy talking to me) .. He said he was so busy he couldn't call..
3 weeks ago, he stopped answering the phone! My friends saw him hanging out with his friends the other day.. What's wrong? The last time we talked he said he loved me and he said he misses me, etc..
What do you think the reason could be is it someone else in his life? Do you think he'll be back? Why does a guy dump without even telling you he wants to end it???
2007-01-03 08:09:56 · 16 answers · asked by leave me alone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
So you guys think he either doesn't want this commitment or he found someone else..
:( I loved him with all my f**** heart I was very faithful to him.. why???????????????
2007-01-03 08:24:56 · update #1
In all honesty, it sounds to me, he ended it for one of two reasons. The first one he's not ready to be in a long term relationship and didn't know how to tell you or two there is someone else and he just didn't want to be man enough to tell you. Either way just let him go his own way. If he loves you he'll be back and if he doesn't its better to find out now.
2007-01-03 08:21:27 · answer #1 · answered by jessica p 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that.it seems that your boyfriend is not ready for a commitment.he didn't want to tell you because he doesn't want to hurt you.give him a space...let him go..i know you love him but you have to move on.it's not the end.
behind the clouds the sun is still shining.i know for sure that you can find someone woth loving.be strong and take courage.Show it to him that what he did is not really a big deal.if the wound is fresh it is painful but as some goes by it will eventually healed.you should be thankful you've seen his true color.the earlier the better.why? because if he married you and the relationship didn't work,it's more painful...think about it...
if you're meant for each other he will come back to you....be patient.
2007-01-03 08:48:18 · answer #2 · answered by MACRENE PADASDAO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we are always the last to know, he did love u, once before she came into his life. sometimes no matter how good we are to someone we can't control what others do. we can't blame ourselves for it. he doesn't tell u cause he doesn't like confrontation, he doesn't want to explain why, as he doesn't have a good reason. he is a coward and an avoid er. he stops answering his phone cause he thinks u will eventually give up and just leave him alone. unfortunately we have to accept it face reality, and move on, as the more we call wanting an explanation the more he will avoid u.
2007-01-03 08:19:15 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not waste any more time worrying about someone else. You have a great life ahead of you, so why worry about someone who obviously does not have a sense of responsibility towards you? Wipe the proverbial sand from your shoes and move on, he is not worth one more second of your time. When one door closes, two more open, and behind those doors is the person who is the one you are supposed to spend your life with. Enjoy the journey...
2007-01-03 08:19:20 · answer #4 · answered by buddha bill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-15 08:32:52 · answer #5 · answered by haden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he found someone else, or he is just tired of the committed relationship. Give him some time and you will know what happens, just don't hang around waiting for him to get back to you, live your life and let someone see how well you're doing and tell him that you are ok, don't let him see that you are bothered by his childish behavior!
2007-01-03 08:15:17 · answer #6 · answered by wantstoknow 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, this happened to me when I was engaged. On our last conversation, he told me he loved me and couldn't wait to see me again (we were long-distance at the time) and was making wedding plans. Then he stopped calling and answering my calls, exacctly like what happened to you.
There is no rhyme or reason for this other than he is a coward and you should thank your lucky stars it didn't work out. My guess is he was seeing someone on the side, or just lost interest. The only person who really knows is him. Sorry it happened to you but don't give his sorry *** another thought. Work on finding someone who isn't a freaking *******!
2007-01-03 08:14:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is the type of man who can not stand confruntation. He is hoping you will just disappear rather than having to brake up with you. He said he loved and missed you but i believe he was just telling you what you wanted to here. MOVE ON! When and if he calls DON'T ANSWER!
2007-01-03 08:18:19 · answer #8 · answered by I♥Karma 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For some guys its hard for them to speak on how they feel. And besides you only knew him for 8months. Its not the end of the world. Sooner or later you will like someone else.
2007-01-03 08:15:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Guys are famous for being chickens#!t like that. There's not necessarily anybody else, but he's just too much of a wimp to talk to you. You don't want somebody like that.
2007-01-03 08:15:54 · answer #10 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋