Is it just me, or do a lot of the girls in England today [especially] not have a mind of their own and just do whatever the ringleader says so to look 'cool' and because they couldn't survive without any friends? And those ringleaders are just as bad, they're prima donnas and think they're so cool but they don't really know what a friend is like and they just use these sheep to make them look really nice and popular etc. I hate those kind of people, what do you guys think about them?
2007-01-03 08:04:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sorry Lorna but it is not just in England it is pretty well universal. Sad is what it is, but soon enough hopefully these young people will mature and grow up and laugh at how they behaved when younger. A lot of young females think this type of attitude makes them look cool to their peers etc., but in fact it makes them look very weak and shows low self esteem. And a lot of young people do not realize how some of their choices today may affect them later on in life, ie: naked pics may come back to appear when they want to gain a professional career etc. The fact that they are after immediate rewards and do not look long term at their behaviour is something that I believe all generations are guilty of. Certainly it was around in my generation of growing up, my parents, grandparents and so on.
2007-01-03 08:11:02 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People say they want to be individuals, but very few are. Most just want to be sheep, and do the 'safe' thing - the same that every one has done. Just watch a wolf pack in the wild hang around the alpha female.
2007-01-06 12:52:01 · answer #2 · answered by ffordcash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any human interaction is a power play. Who gets the power and how. With more people behind them you create a mini society and a dominant leader.
It's inevitable. The question becomes what do you do? Don't give them your energy. :)
2007-01-03 16:18:51 · answer #3 · answered by Eric E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its everywhere!! Its not going to change because people will never stop trying to fit in. Just like the rag mags wont go away because people by them.
2007-01-03 16:06:22 · answer #4 · answered by troys_wifey2003 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a teenager, so...........
This is called peer presser.
2007-01-03 16:07:34 · answer #5 · answered by Sunflower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋