and don,t want to hear it,s because i am Man.
(please only men,sorry ladies)
2007-01-03 07:51:18 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not sure about the men you are dating, but mine has no problem...(love, caring, sad)
if you read a lot of the questions about abusive men; they have no problem either.(theirs are angry, mad, jealous, crazy)
2007-01-03 07:55:03 · answer #1 · answered by Khandi 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I can't speak about all men, but I have no problem showing emotion, but I just don't like dragging it out. "That movie was sad. Now where to want to eat?" I don't need to recap what I felt because I was there. Plus, I would lose all the new feels I could have while I'm thinking about how I felt an hour ago. Emotions are like a river its not just one single emotion you at any moment, but mixture of the top four or five in a constantly changing proportions. In all truth by the time I figure out what I felt a second ago its completely changed.
2007-01-03 16:18:07 · answer #2 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe it is that they are afraid - it just isn't the way God made them.
I think there are men that can show emotion, but if they were as emotional as most women, they would be single or gay! Sorry - it's true!! Women are not attracted to over emotional men. We want a man who can provide us with security. If he is a blubbering idiot, how secure would you feel? Naturally, men are the hunters and the providers and women are the nurturing, care-givers. We are genetically made up to be more emotional.
Life!!? You'll never figure it out, but be careful what you wish for! This world would be a much different place if all of our men became as emotional as we are!!!!!!!
2007-01-03 16:02:24 · answer #3 · answered by Kailey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men can't be honest about feelings, because that is like admitting that they have been beaten. Some men can do it, but that is in a relationship. If you are a man in a relationship that has led to marriage you don't show emotions because you haven't practiced it enough. Practice, Practice, Practice. Women can do it easily because they do it all of the time. They don't have practice at guarding their feelings because they never had to.
2007-01-03 15:58:06 · answer #4 · answered by creerhnter 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When the honeymoon is over, women then start looking for reasons or flaws in the relationship. Anything not up to par is highlighted and underlinded. The fewer things that come between you the better. Honestly, its good to show emotion but there is a limit.
2007-01-03 16:04:38 · answer #5 · answered by grtoo9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but I had to answer this. I have been reading up and trying some things and found that men think with their heads and women with their emotions...that is why us women have such a hard time dealing with heartache and arguements. It definately does not mean we are wrong but, we ought to understand that an emotion is just that...an emotion. It is not something that we should base life on.
2007-01-03 15:55:52 · answer #6 · answered by LaRae 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was always taught that made you a p---y. When I did open up and try to share my feelings, I didn't know how. Now I am needy, jealous, insecure, and have a ton of other emotions that I wish I would never have had. I always want to talk about my feelings, and since I don't know how to do that in a respectful manner, it seems like I am blaming all of these bad feelings on my wife. I do not know what the future of my marriage is all because we think women want us to share our feelings.
2007-01-03 17:20:01 · answer #7 · answered by jason 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lady here honey, and listen up and good! Men show their emotions if they have some for you! Point Blank! It's not being afraid to committment, it's more like he's not into you.
When a man loves a woman, you got something on your hands. Trust me. You see men give love to give sex and woman give sex to get love. So that explains the "emotions definition regarding men and being afraid". "you think" lol
Happy New Year!
2007-01-03 15:56:49 · answer #8 · answered by renosgirl2006 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Many men find that showing emotions is a sign of weakness.
However, many women find that they are attracted to a man who is not afraid to show his emotion.
I get emotional and I'm not afraid for people to see that.
2007-01-03 15:54:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men do not show their emotions because they do not want to be vulnerable to the "throw salt in a wound" attacks that women are capable of!
2007-01-03 15:56:11 · answer #10 · answered by Miss Crickett 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's because they are taught to repress their emotions from very early on. Women would not feel safe if our men were emotional wrecks all the time.
2007-01-03 15:54:13 · answer #11 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋