My fiance broke off the relationship with me and exhibited the following:
- Cold
- Guarded
- Blamed me
- Over generalized
- Made character attacks on me
- Took very little responsibility
- Did not seem very broken
- Defensive
What do you see?
2007-01-03 07:50:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Should I confront her after a little time has passed?
2007-01-03 07:55:01 · update #1
yep. unfortunately it seems like she decided the relatinship was over a while ago. she just ommited to tell YOU.i think she`s covering guilt of some sort, which is why she`s being cruel and defensive. i dont think u should even bother confronting her, just walk away now, and think about how u can take your life forward from here....
2007-01-03 08:09:54 · answer #1 · answered by splee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-03 15:53:59 · answer #2 · answered by sw312 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe another relationship is in the process.
Or he is not ready for the next step in the relationship "marriage."
Best to know now then after marriage. What is done in the dark will show it self in the light (my father use to say). So, in time what is really going on will show itself.
Best of luck.
2007-01-03 15:57:47 · answer #3 · answered by Sunflower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not trying to be mean but it sounds to me like they may have detached from you a while ago. If someone could be that icy who was suppose to love you.. it seems like they are just lacking emotion and may have detached from you and already gone through part of the break up process emotionally.
2007-01-03 15:56:21 · answer #4 · answered by Tracy G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone who got out of what would have been a very bad marriage just in time.
2007-01-03 15:54:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than likely, he did something, feels guilty and wants to put the blame on you to make himself feel better. You're better off without him!
2007-01-03 15:53:43 · answer #6 · answered by lookinforanswers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should send her a thank you note...that you were spared a LIFE of misery.
Find yourself a woman who needs more than a emotional punching-bag.
I personally would NEVER contact that piece of garbage again....
2007-01-03 15:57:38 · answer #7 · answered by LovePinkPuffies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either she was looking for a way out or maybe she thought you were carrying on something that you did or did not do.
2007-01-03 15:53:07 · answer #8 · answered by jaws1013 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps there was a lack of communication somewhere along the line...call her and ask her to be more specific
2007-01-03 15:55:23 · answer #9 · answered by Million C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i see one side of a two-sided story.
2007-01-03 15:54:34 · answer #10 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋