Women date married for the attention sometimes the money and a lot of the times the SEX.And then we end up in love losing our minds.Crying and sad because we want thm to leave their wives why is this.
2007-01-03 07:49:14 · 21 answers · asked by Kenya B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You just summed it up. You date a married man, because they're "worth" it (ie someone else thought they were worth marrying, therefore their attention is desireable), they give you a lot of attention (because it's exciting and a risk, since it's an affair, so the attention isn't really about you), they're usually financially stable, and since they're bored with sex at home (most likely) they really pour their heart and soul into sex.
But if you married one of those guys, you'd find that they're no longer "worth" it (because they're married to you, and you have nobody else's judgement to fall back on), they'll stop giving you attention (because it's a boring marriage, not an exciting affair, which again has nothing to do with you), you'll realize that their financial stability comes with your own, so no more flamboyant spending, and they'll get bored with sex (as will you.)
2007-01-03 08:02:29 · answer #1 · answered by daveowenville 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's the fantasy it's make believe and it's playing with fire and bad karma.
And if he cheated now he will cheat on you! It means he is to much of a coward to deal with the problems in his existing relationship so he wanders off and fufills his needs in another way. So horrible and as far as the other woman goes she has to take a step back and appreciate or respect herself enough to know that this is wrong. I mean come on there are other men you can go out with that are actually not married.
2007-01-03 07:54:09 · answer #2 · answered by Justasking 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think they get what they deserve....they have no business dating a married man in the first place.
I don't understanding falling in love with a liar and a cheater...that's what these men are after all.
2007-01-03 08:17:34 · answer #3 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women date married men because the married man
allows it . Sometimes the women loose their minds when
they fall in love with the man because the man is really
using you for extra pleasure and probably has no in-
tentions of leaving his for you then you get all hyped up
about it. Seems to me it ought to be a lesson for these
women to work on the single men instead as they have a
better chance of getting all the attention they seek.
2007-01-03 13:53:43 · answer #4 · answered by RudiA 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
because they are sad and lonely. they are to insecure to find they're own men. they are scared that if they do, they will lose them to some one like them. as far as really believing that they will dump their wives is another foolish notion that these lonely women dream about. he has a family and nothing other than hell or jail is going to get in their way. some even think that having a child by these men of their dreams will make the illusion appear quicker but alas, it will never happen. also it is a physiological need to be needed by some one else man. find happiness within thyself and you too can have someone all your own.
2007-01-03 08:03:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually because a married man is supposed to hold certain values. or at least is able to take care of himself and his family. Althoug his marraige might be crap.. i have often wondered the same, that came from when i first saw a dating site for married people, i was like what the hell?? check source if you want to know which site i mean
2014-04-02 01:38:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wanting to be loved is a universal feeling. You get caught up in the emotions that feel so real. What is lust on the married man's part feels like love for the woman. They go back to their wives who they love but maybe don't lust as much.
2007-01-03 07:52:59 · answer #7 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all it's wrong that's why it never works. Secondly, emotions are thrown in there and it causes a big mess. If he wanted to leave his wife don't you think you would have him already? Find somebody single.
2007-01-03 07:57:16 · answer #8 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It always amazed me how quickly a loose whore can fall in love!!!
Maybe the wife needs to just beat some common sense into you!! These women are nothing but homewrecking pieces of shiit!!!
2007-01-03 10:14:58 · answer #9 · answered by hurtand still in love 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you answered your own question,attention maybe?, or maybe you get the feel that the man can be a good family man, since he already has a family, the thing is that us humans, we created the commitment of marriage which in some cases comes as a hassle after some time...then the man goes after other women to fill whatever void there is in his marriage without taking into notice the woman's feelings....i think
2007-01-03 07:52:28 · answer #10 · answered by no_bsht 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋