I have recently found out that my husband of 4 years has cheated on me. He wants to work things out, and so do I. But I really want to cheat on him just to even the score.
2007-01-03 07:48:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't do it. If you both truly want to work it out, this would be a bad idea. The goal is to be able to rebuild the trust. I know this will take time, but you have to start now.
2007-01-03 07:51:52 · answer #1 · answered by Bumbo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although if the world worked that way then yes this would be a good thing to do, but do u want to degrade urself 2 one night stand? There r alot of things to think about, diseases, pregnancy, other partner becoming a stalker or falling in love with u? Then on the other hand if u give him another chance whose to say that he won't do it again, then ull do it again the cycle will never end. So don't start it.
2007-01-03 07:52:45 · answer #2 · answered by 2good4hem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no score to be kept in a marriage you are the winner by being the bigger person & not cheating on him. Send him to the Dr ASAP for test before he shares his cheating with you. He needs councling who cheats ? LOSERS
2007-01-03 07:52:57 · answer #3 · answered by LCee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is you being a slut evening the score? Then you are no better than him and you shouldnt be married. If you want to work it out there has to be maturity and a willingness to move forward with honesty and a new trust. It wont work otherwise.
2007-01-03 07:51:01 · answer #4 · answered by troys_wifey2003 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to even the score, but if the right situation comes up... remember he ruined the monogamy. This might be an unpopular opinion, but you are justified in an eye for an eye way. Use your freebee wisely and don't get caught.
2007-01-03 08:09:43 · answer #5 · answered by al bundy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you really want to work things out, do not do it. If he really wants to work things out, than he is truly sorry and the worst punishment is knowing that you would never do that to him. If you are going to work this out, the both of you have to agree to not bring it up over and over again. That will kill whatever may be left of your relationship.
2007-01-03 09:14:14 · answer #6 · answered by jason 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Won't work. Remember what your Mom taught you (or hopefully she did) Two wrongs done't make a right. Chances are you'll catch and STD or wind up with a stalker and it will really screw things up. You can either forgive him and work with him or leave him and see someone else.
2007-01-03 07:52:17 · answer #7 · answered by lookinforanswers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'd likely ruin any chances of fixing your marriage.
This isn't about keeping score. Right now you're angry, yes, but doing that will make it worse. Sorry.
2007-01-03 07:52:49 · answer #8 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As my mother always said "two wrongs don't make a right", either work it out and put it behind you or move on without him.
2007-01-03 07:51:59 · answer #9 · answered by jaws1013 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's not a good idea, be above it all, and take the high road, show him that you are responsible and respectful person towards yourself and others around you! just because he wasn't smart enough doesn't mean that you should be stupid as well!
2007-01-03 07:51:21 · answer #10 · answered by wantstoknow 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋