sometimes when my borfriend and i fight i jsut get so unbelievably mad and i feel like i cant control myself at all. like i just want to scream and throw things and freak out. i try to stop myself because i am afraid it may cause a miscarriage or hurt my baby. could this happen?
2007-01-03 07:40:48 · 14 answers · asked by marias 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i don't think it can hurt your baby, but it can stress your baby out alot, you might want to talk to your doctor about it and you might need to be put on a anit depressant.
2007-01-03 08:20:36 · answer #1 · answered by mama 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Right now you are going to be raising this child alone, and although accepting that and understanding that is the scariest thing in the world, it can be done. I would suggest moving back towards where your family is. Hun, I've been in your situation, and I am still in your situation. Your boyfriend, sounds like my ex-boyfriend. My ex boyfriend on top of this, was very emotionally abusive, and physically abusive. From the stress of the emotional abuse, and the physical abuse, I almost lost this baby countless times. The stress of sitting around, and wanting this man to change to badly, is causing stress on you and the baby, and is not healthy right now. You need to do whats best for you and the baby. You cannot make your boyfriend change. If hes not abusive emotionally (or physically) and has just become very distant, then maybe when he sees his baby he will change and come around and try to be a part of the baby's life...but you cannot force it on him because it won't work that way...and what is the point of continuing a relationship with a man who can't be there for you and refuses to grow up?
2016-03-29 06:16:02 · answer #2 · answered by Deborah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes!!!!! being stressed out (which is a big part of yelling and freaking out) many women go through stress already without doing much while they are pregnant. So calm down some and relax more. Hurting your baby or yourself is not worth a fight with your boyfriend right now. Try talking things out and if you get to the point of freaking out just tell yourself whats more important.....ME&THIS BABYor a silly fight!
2007-01-03 07:49:40 · answer #3 · answered by brfoxracer25 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First, a relationship like that isn't good for you or the baby to begin with. Aside from that, ANY form of stress is bad for the baby...keep in mind that your baby is in an extremely fragile state right now. If you get mad, then that means that your heart rate has increased...which could be harmful to your child...try to relax and stay calm if at all possible. good luck!
2007-01-03 08:35:58 · answer #4 · answered by cowboynpony00 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I was just reading in Parenting magazine, january 2007 issue, that contrary to popular believe stress will not harm the unborn baby, however it does increase your risk for preeclampsia. Now that you recognize you have a small problem take steps toward improving that before the baby is born. Good luck
2007-01-03 08:06:35 · answer #5 · answered by flaminfortune 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, your stress can harm the baby and could cause you to have a miscarriage.
Try to stay calm and if you and your boyfriend are fighting that much maybe you should sit down and talk about how reasonable the two of you being together is.
2007-01-03 07:45:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes, stress is known to affect the body and baby. Not sure why you and your b/f are fighting, none of my business, but you two may try to get into some counseling.
If he is not willing to do it, you may sure that you do. Pregnancy can be a roller coster of emotions. It is very important that you take care of yourself wholly not only for baby, but for yourself.
2007-01-03 07:47:49 · answer #7 · answered by Brenda E 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes. Especially if you in your first three months of pregnancy. My hubby put me through hell when I was pregnant and I was so stressed that my blood pressure would increase. It's not worth the health of your child. Just think about that baby when you get upset. My little girl is almost 2 and she is so moody and sensitive. Ithink that it rubbed off on her.
2007-01-03 08:23:13 · answer #8 · answered by Dee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't say that it could hurt your baby, but please remember that the baby can hear you. Even though that baby is small and may not understand your words it can still feel emotion. Men are annoying and they always will be, but try to just leave and diffuse the situation before the next time you blow up.
2007-01-03 07:46:40 · answer #9 · answered by mom-knows-best 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes this can harm your baby. This baby is INSIDE of you. S/he knows everything that is going on. you need to calm down. And yes uneeded stress CAN cause a miscarriage.
2007-01-03 07:43:50 · answer #10 · answered by Rileigh's MOMMY! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋