Are all people in the world same? I'm very frustrated to live in my country, which is very poor and I don't like its mentality. I think that I deserve to live in some other country. What to do, I can't move out?? How to prevent that kind of thinking? I sometimes imagine that I live in the U.S.
2007-01-03 07:39:37 · 8 answers · asked by ciomlol 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I always liked the phrase - "wherever you go, there you are"
If you're unhappy in one place what makes you think you'll be happier some place else? Life might be more exciting or comfortable in another country, but your level of happiness mainly depends on your attitude.
2007-01-03 07:45:37 · answer #1 · answered by Ryan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope for you, and pray for you. Unfortunately we have no choice where we are born and at times no choice at where we live. The U.S. has its frustrations too. Nothing is perfect.
Why do you want to prevent the thinking related to moving out? You cant prevent it but you can live with it and move on to some more productive activities that cope or change the reality causing the frustrations to help alleviate the related depressions involved although in extreme situations living with what you feel is all you have.
2007-01-03 15:48:19 · answer #2 · answered by JORGE N 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every country has it's "ups" and "downs," and moving to another country may be more work than what it's worth. However, I have met many who come to the United States (I live in New York City), with mixed reactions. It's all about what YOU want to do, and make it happen.
Do you want to come to the U.S? Do you think it will make you happy moving here and starting over? Do you have any friends here that can take you in, until you get on your feet/on your own?
Make friends... plan, plan, plan, and before you know it, you can make it here.
The ball is in your court. You can either make it happen, or not.
2007-01-03 15:56:31 · answer #3 · answered by ✯~I♥NYC~✯ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would do whatever I could to get out of your country. You will still be lonely here in the United States, but at least you have a shot at making some money, which will of course make you some very willing friends. Again, you'll still be lonely with your new money and friends, but you will have less time to think about it.
However, the only cure for loneliness is charity work, in my opinion.
2007-01-03 15:52:39 · answer #4 · answered by miss_ursie_la 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not all people are the same, However it is up to you to try to make things better. At least in your own world. Imagine yourself in a happy place and find the silver lining in everything. Why are you not able to move?
2007-01-03 15:51:01 · answer #5 · answered by Elaine J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What idea do you have about the US? What country do you live in?
Perception is the key to a different view of life and you can either change your perception by changing places or changing your MIND and how you view things or the opportunities you see.
2007-01-03 15:44:34 · answer #6 · answered by jeanofarc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so gratefull to live in the USA. Why prevent your dreaming of moving to the U.S.? Focus on the joy in your life & small ways to improve it, but don't let go of your dreams. It is the small things in life that count. I hope all of your dreams come true.
2007-01-03 15:47:34 · answer #7 · answered by shouldbworkn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant do anything about it .. unless you under 18
if your older ... get up .. study .. get a job and stay in USA USA USA
2007-01-03 15:42:25 · answer #8 · answered by => the guy <== 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋