my husband that left me at 8 months pregnant and i went to our babys doctors appt today. He is constanly beging overly nice and saying he cares so much about me and my well being. He has moved out into his own apartment and i have asked him to stay away from me except for when it's about the baby. While at the doctors office he kept fixing my wedding ring on my finger (it kept slipping around) why does he do this? Is he playing some game on me? he's basiclly say one thing and then acting another? anybody have any insite?
2007-01-03 07:17:00 · 5 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
and one other thing, he also said that at one time he loved me SO MUCH that he would be willing to do anything for me even if that ment seeing me with happy with someone else.
I don't buy this at all but what do you think?
2007-01-03 07:22:03 · update #1
maybe your husband is insecure and doesn't think he can make you happy, so he is trying to stay out of your way so that you could find your happiness somewhere else, but at the same time he wants to be with you too, and so he is torn between the two situations? I suggest that you speak to him about it, since the baby is almost here I think that you need to discuss this before the baby comes and figure out once and for all what each one of you wants and how to get it!
2007-01-03 07:45:15 · answer #1 · answered by wantstoknow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone. you can go to the doctors office alone. he left you alone didn't he. see him in child support court. he is playing a game. he cares about you now because you are pregnant. as soon as you have the baby, he might just want to see the baby and not you. move on ,he has made his decision already when he went and got himself an apartment. he also may have a girlfriend and is not going to tell you this because he doesn't want to upset you. and always remember he abandoned you not the other way around.good luck.
2007-01-03 15:48:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Am I missing something here? Your *****'n about your soon to be "x" being too nice to you? Would you rather him stay and beat you? Maybe just a verbal assault here and there? Or maybe you'd like him to stalk you? Seems to me, your the one with the anger issues, not him.
2007-01-03 17:01:58 · answer #3 · answered by [><] Rebel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he psycho, tell him you have a new b/f and he doesnt want you to be around the baby's dad untill there is a bloodtest and standard visitation in force.... have some guy with a deep voice tell him for you
2007-01-03 20:32:41 · answer #4 · answered by Jillary von Hämsterviel™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he isnt sure of himself.
i think there are feelings for you.
you are right about telling him to stay away.
be patient...be kind.
2007-01-03 16:10:01 · answer #5 · answered by Sopwith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋