My loving, caring husband left me after he had enough of my anger issues... My own damn fault, although my anger was the effect of his inaction to his family 's verbal assualts on me. He treated me like a queen but I was do damn caught up in hurt and fear and anger that I did not seek help that I needed.
I have to leave him alone right now (he's staying with his mom now for lenght of time undecided) I love him very much and have realized my mistakes very late...
he wants a divorce and I don't. How do I get through?
i will be talking to lawyer and everyone in case it does come to that.. If you are in thsi situation too, pls. connect and say something. i am very alone. I miss him like crazy.
2007-01-03 07:14:36 · 4 answers · asked by Centered 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It sounds as if maybe you should try anger management classes, at least to show him that you are willing to do whatever it will take to work things out with him. Also try marriage counseling, they can help work out the issues with the in laws and also show him how what they say or do is affecting you. If one or neither of you is willing to try the anger, or marriage counseling then maybe there something alot deeper going on than just the anger or the in laws. Best of luck to you.
2007-01-03 07:22:59 · answer #1 · answered by photogrl262000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick a dog enough times and he won't respond to your offer of a treat. The same thing applies when anger in a relationship is commonplace. The other party never knows when you might explode again.
Getting him back will take a lot of effort and a 100% committment to get rid of the anger in dealing with issues.
2007-01-03 15:21:14 · answer #2 · answered by united9198 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need professional help for your anger problem. And stop blaming other people for your anger. The first step is taking responsibility for your response to others. You CHOSE to react with anger. Therapy will help you find more constructive ways of dealing with people/situations that anger you. And if it bothered you so much and your husband didn't stick up for you, then he really wasn't all that loving and caring.
2007-01-03 15:22:46 · answer #3 · answered by redrum42482 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you let him know that your seeking help, how you feel, and you admitting your mistakes. If that doesnt help its time to move on and learn from your mistakes.
2007-01-03 15:42:01 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Atimalala 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋