My wife says it is but I don't understand it. Do You?
2007-01-03 06:50:30 · 21 answers · asked by Andy S 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
what a croc! i do all kinds of things around the house....i dont get any extra loving..just more time for her to watch tv.....bull crap man bull crap
2007-01-03 07:00:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your wife would feel better about you and the relationship you share if you would contribute more and be more of a partner to her in sharing the household duties. I have been married for a long, long time - and I tell you, I think men really don't get how much work it takes to maintain a home, hold down a job, care for yourself personally, care for children, maintain a relationship, care for family, etc. (Do you see my point?) Women in general feel very overwhelmed and much too busy and stressed these days.
If you were to ask your wife (AND THEN REALLY LISTEN TO HER ANSWER) what it is she most wants you to do around the house. THEN DO IT - if it is at all reasonable. Also - ask her if this chore or list of chores she is proposing is something she would like you to do on a regular basis. Ask her how often she wants the stuff done. I GUARANTEE YOU - if you do "your part" - then you will be rewarded HEAVILY in the romance department!
(from a wife who "knows"!) Good luck - it sounds like you are really trying to be a good husband. Kudos to you.
2007-01-03 06:59:43 · answer #2 · answered by Alice laughing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES its a turn on and YES it can get you both in the mood. Also DON'T just help around the house just to get sex out of your wife. You should help out because YOU WANT TO. Women are so great full when their man helps around the house it shows that they aren't lazy and that they are helpful. Women think that is a sweet thing for a guy to do.
2007-01-03 06:58:32 · answer #3 · answered by . 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
For a woman, coming home to a clean house, and no cleaning to worry about, relaxes us. That, in itself doesn't put us in the mood, but not being worried about having to do housework lets us relax so we can get in the mood.
It also shows us that you care enough to make us comfortable. Most women are stressed out by a messy home and the though of having to clean it just adds to the stress. It's much harder for women to be turned on if they are stressed.
2007-01-03 06:56:33 · answer #4 · answered by lookinforanswers 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes and while he is doing the dishes, and the extra stuff, I am soaking in the tub, and getting my mind on him, on how well that I going show him how I really apprciated him helping me out, and he is going get everything he wants in the bedroom!
He is so sexy and helping me out, what can a wife do?, Well, give him all the postive reinforcements prizes that he wished for!
2007-01-03 14:27:08 · answer #5 · answered by ourjacobdavid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you know foreplay starts before you even get in to the bedroom...when a womean has help wether its house work help with the kids or even some time to herself..it helps to reenergize her so that when the time does come to be intimate shes not tierd and shes ready for it.....If on the other hand she dosnt have help and shes doing everything on her own shell be to tierd to even think about sex
2007-01-03 07:00:43 · answer #6 · answered by Pretty Princess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a really big turn on for me when my husband voluntarily does stuff around the house. It's just so sweet and sexy!
2007-01-03 06:54:22 · answer #7 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's because it seems like such nice thing to do when you guys help out around the house. Whenever I would catch my ex washing dishes or something I just wanted to jump his bones to show my appreciation.
2007-01-03 07:00:15 · answer #8 · answered by lovelee1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh my god yes it is!! when my husband just does the dishes it's sooo nice< he does them 5 days a week now:)> it's just the fact that he wants to help and do something nice for me that is such a turn on women are more emotional and like when a guy takes initiative and does something thoughtful try it and reap the benefits my friend!!!
2007-01-03 07:01:42 · answer #9 · answered by Carrie H 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love to see my guy working around the house, with those muscles flexing and that sexy look of accomplishment on his face. Yes, it's a definite turn on! Now, about those bedroom windows, honey: can we go upstairs and wash them again, pl-e-e-e-a-s-e?
2007-01-03 07:01:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a woman...and I can tell you that when my husband does something around the house without me having to ask....it really means alot and I feel very loved by him....and in return I want to show him how much he is appreciated too......In simple terms does he get romanced....he sure does.....
2007-01-03 07:02:59 · answer #11 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋