my co-workers on anti-D's....im pregnent, she calls me fat! what should i do or say???

Question

i work with her side by side everyday.....shes very rude an self centered. when i have something to say to her she tells me( thats life deal with it)

Answer 1

ok.

Who is the mentally stable one here? the changes your body is experiencing, still makes you more mentally stable than cinderella over there, who could just as well hurl herself out the window as to say good morning.So my advice is smile and ignor her so large, until it literally and physically peels her skin.

Answer 2

You then say..."well, you're ugly, but I can lose weight"

Your best option is to just avoid speaking to her whenever possible. If she makes more rude comments, just look at her sincerely and say "I know your life sucks and you feel the need to take it out on me and others to feel better, but you should try to be much nicer, you would have much better results." Then continue working with a smile. The whole idea is to realize that people like her hate their lives. Therefore, they become rude and belittle others to cover their own inferiority and to make them feel more superior. Just laugh and continue your business.

Answer 3

thats the type of person you dont talk to unless you have too
and be very brief when you do but you need to tell her im pregnant thats not being fat your baby is healthy too and nither me or my be will be on phyco meds like you are . and you can asked to be moved Im sure i had a bad attitude with my pregnacy so people was afraid to call me fat

Answer 4

Well, if your coworker is on anti-depressants, she has enough of her own issues. I would stick to not discussing your life or issues with her. If she continues to call you insulting names, talk to your supervisor and ask if your work area could be moved. You don't need that kind of stress when you are pregnant.

Answer 5

I would tell her that she is rude and mean. Be point blank about it. Sounds like she needs to get a life and stop beating up on you. Good luck!

Answer 6

shes probably a stupid *** or needs a boyfriend or maybe on her period and is very cranky all the time. put laxitive in her food and make her **** all the way to the bathroom. u hav a life and dont need to be treated like that.

Answer 7

Tell her "I know you are, but what am I".
No really, just file a formal complaint with your HR person and tell the lady to leave you alone, your pregnant and would not like to do something that would invlole rearanging her face..........Or "deal with life, its yours not mine"

Answer 8

ignore her and treat her the same way people like that don't change