After suffering through a horrible and expensive divorce, I'm dealing with a large amount of debt. I'm working a full-time office job, a part-time bartending job (just to keep my head above water) and going to school part-time since I never got the chance before. I was just looking for some tips on keeping motivated. Sometimes I feel like getting up in the morning is just too hard, but i keep going for my kids.
2007-01-03 06:13:16 · 8 answers · asked by downlow 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Having gone though the same thing, the only advice I can give is give yourself little goals to work towards.
2007-01-03 06:15:17 · answer #1 · answered by By Your Command 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just keep reminding yourself that things can only get better so try to stay positive, your kids will appreciate everything you do for them. Also keep reminding yourself when you finish school most likely you will be able to find a better paying job and won't have to work 2 jobs to make ends meet. I know it's hard to stay positive but keep your chin-up, there is a light at the end of the tunnel, it's hard to tell right now but the harder you work now the easier it will get later. Best of luck, stay positive.
2007-01-03 06:26:47 · answer #2 · answered by froggi6106 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, I am in a similar boat, however, I also have a heartache to nurse,lol. Sometimes it's hard just to stop crying. My kids keep me going, but still cant get over and don't know what to do. Sorry don't have any advice for you, but at least you know you're not alone. If you ever find out the answer, let me know too
good luck and best wishes.
2007-01-03 06:22:23 · answer #3 · answered by venus11224 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meditate 10 mins a day . You will find amazing results in a month........ Sit on a chair comfortably , eyes colsed, your hands on your laps.
JUST observe you breath going in and out. Do not force the inhalation and exhalation.
When in meditative state(also coz eyes closed) your conscious mind is inactive and only your sub conscious mind is active.
Your sub conscious mind is like a computer, it does what you tell it. BUT, YOU CAN TALK TO IT ONLY WHEN U MEDITATE.
Give suggestions to your SC mind saying " I WILL GET UP EARLY IN THE MORNING". You will become better and also motivated. GOOD LUCK.
2007-01-03 06:23:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i went through the same thing i found a hobby real fast, try to find a better job that pays so you dont have to work as hard otherwise your going to crack
2007-01-03 06:29:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you already found your motivation, your kids...Keep plugging along, it will work out.
2007-01-03 06:15:36 · answer #6 · answered by Jacuzzi Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep telling yourself that you are doing it for your kids and how much better off you will all be when you finish school
2007-01-03 06:15:40 · answer #7 · answered by shambuca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think about what if my mother had got an abortion.
2007-01-03 06:15:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋