He wants me to have an abortion. He says I wouldn't understand why. I want to have this child. his words are please I can not stand this anymore death is better then this please.
2007-01-03 05:54:34 · 13 answers · asked by ANA 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Congratulations on your new little one! A baby is always a blessing, no matter what the circumstances of conception are! You are very brave to seek out an alternative to abortion
Your local pregnancy resource center gives free pregnancy testing. Often times, they also provide preliminary medical apponitments (like an ultrasound) depending on your circumstances. They do not provide nor refer for abotions, but they do have information about various types of abortion procedures. All of their information and services are provided free of charge and confidentially. Your boyfriend may want to come with you. Believe me, any man who sees what these abortion procedures are like and still wants his significant other to go through with one of them is no man at all.
Find your local center here: www.pregnancycenters.org
You can call ahead of time or go in as a walk-in. You will take the test there.
Good luck and God bless! I will keep you, your little one and your boyfriend in my prayers!
2007-01-03 06:10:53 · answer #1 · answered by Mary's Daughter 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do NOT abort the baby. You will regret it. This baby is not a mistake, it was given to you from God. If you don't want the baby, there is always another couple out there who can't have one and wants one bad. If your boyfriend can't agree with what you want, then maybe he isn't right for you. You are the one having this child, make your own decision. But I will tell you now that I think abortion is wrong, it is murder no matter what other people say. There is a living baby growing inside of you and you will be killing it if you abort. Pray to God that He will lead you down the right path. I'm praying for you. =)
2007-01-03 17:56:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is YOUR choice.
He should have thought of this before he took his penis out of his pants.
You won't be making a "happy family" with this baby though either. He's not going to marry you and live happily ever after. "I want to have his child" doesn't mean you are going to be with him. You are likely going to end up single and with a baby. That is reality.
Abortion is not an easy way out. You will live with that choice forever. You will also live with the choice to have the baby forever. Now you know why having sex is such a big grown up decision. Now you have another big grown up decision to make. You might want to talk to your parents and get some help.
Remember though it is YOUR BODY and YOUR CHOICE. Do not let anyone force you to do anything you don't want to do. You are the one who has to live with what happens for the rest of your life. It will stay in your heart.
2007-01-03 14:02:56 · answer #3 · answered by choice478 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He CAN'T make you do anything you don't want to do. You BOTH created this child, you both will pay for the consequences. He should know that! If he is not wanting to be apart of this childs life, then file for child support and find a man who loves you and your baby. You deserve better! Good Luck
2007-01-03 14:01:25 · answer #4 · answered by sshhmmee2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to say i don't know. All you can do is tell him how you feel and that you want the baby. Then tell him to explain to you why he wants an abortion so bad. Start there and maybe with talking you will find the answer.
2007-01-03 13:58:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will probably regret having an abortion, you will never regret having your beautiful baby. I also had an unplanned pregnancy and now I have a beautiful 11 month old baby. She is such a joy and I couldn't imagine life without her. You can provide a good life for your baby.
2007-01-03 13:58:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Then you need to leave him. He cannot force you to abort this baby.
Abortion is murder and I dont think you want to choose your boyfriend over your own baby.
I believe you know what is the right thing!
Follow your heart.
Good Luck!
2007-01-03 13:58:33 · answer #7 · answered by Me...Cat Tyson?? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what does being Muslim have to do with it? Your body, your baby, your decision. Here's a quote to share with him," Abortion in Islam (Submission)-Islam prohibits abortion except in rare cases."
Dump the idiot and have your baby (as long as you can support yourself and the child)
2007-01-03 14:01:08 · answer #8 · answered by Enchanted 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He cannot control you unless you let him. Break off with him immediately because he is a sick and evil person. You made a huge mistake by having unprotected sex with him.
2007-01-03 14:01:31 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe next time you can make a better choice on boyfriends.
2007-01-03 13:57:14 · answer #10 · answered by marisanj 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋