Ok, so I dated this guy for 9 months, it was ok most of the time, but lots of pointless arguments as well. The relationship ended by me cheating on him. After that he broke up with me after I BEGGED him back. So about two months later I heard he got a car accident so I called him. He said that I was the only person he thought about and he CONTINUOUSLY begged me back. I said no because things never worked out, and he's boarder-line crazy. Be is the kind of insecure person and no girl really wants him just because of the way he is. So today he IMs me and goes ON AND ON about hanging out with girls doing this and that and blah blah blah, however, he is known to lie to make him look good. So I'm thinking he's making it all up and he still wants me back. But I just don't understand.
Plus he throws around the word "love" like it's monopoly money!
Why isn't he up-front? Does anyone think they know what's going on or have advice?
2007-01-03 05:48:11 · 16 answers · asked by pink_beauty3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sounds like you answered your own question. dude is not all that he seems. if i were you i would move on. i don't think that your relationship would be a very healthy one. plus there is nothing worse then a guy lying about stupid ****. try and find a guy that is what he says he is and doesn't brag about it. that's just my opinion
2007-01-03 05:53:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save Yourself A Lot Of Future Heartache
And Forget About Him.
Besides you didn't really want him to begin with or you wouldn't
have went out with someone else.
You're Both Playing Games
It's A Rejection Issue Only
Run, Don't Walk, To The Nearest Exit!
2007-01-03 05:53:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is insecure, and you walked all over him. That he's got girls around him is either a good sign that he's getting over it, or a bad sign that he still needs to compensate for the emotional grief by false braggadocio.
Why are you still paying attention to him? The relationship ended badly because it didn't really end. Give it a sense of closure the next time you contact him. Apologize for cheating on him and tell him that you're moving on and so should he.
2007-01-03 07:31:07 · answer #3 · answered by Veritatum17 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who need it? You and he obviously have serious issues. You cheated, he is border-line crazy, etc. Why would you want to be in that kind of relationship, anyway? If you've made up your mind that it's time to move on, then do just that and the next time he calls or texts, do yourself a huge favor and hit the delete button and get on with your life!
2007-01-03 05:52:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is playing a game with you. Move on. Don't answer calls. Don't accept invitations for IM's. If you need to, go down to the police station and get a restraining order. It's easy and effective.
2007-01-03 06:06:46 · answer #5 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Out of all that the thing that stood out the most is, the fact that your a cheater. Close your leggs, respect yourself and the man your with and your relationships will develop alot smoother.
2007-01-03 06:08:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The relationship ended, yet you're together. You cheated. He's borderline crazy. I dont understand either. Sounds like you're made for each other.
2007-01-03 05:55:48 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My advice - you both need to grow up before either of you think about any kind of serious relationship. "pointless agruements" should have been your first clue - his should have been when you cheated on him. Time for both of you to move on the bigger and hopefully better things!
2007-01-03 06:02:41 · answer #8 · answered by wild_orchid_tx36 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on. If it wasnt for the accident you wouldnt have been back in touch. If he is throwing girls in your face, he obviously is trying to hurt you.
2007-01-03 05:54:18 · answer #9 · answered by hank 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like you hurt him a little
and he wants you to get back with him by making his self look good so he needs time to heal and you need to let him do just that kinda like stay away from him so he can move on only fair because you did
2007-01-03 05:52:57 · answer #10 · answered by slpry L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋