i have had two miscarriages in six months?

Question

on the 13th of june 2006 i had a miscarage at 12 wks and had to have a d+c i then had a period two weeks after and did not have another until the hospital gave me to make me have one at the end of october after i suffered a second miscarage , i had a test a hospital and they said i am ovilating but i now again am not having a peiriod is been 6 weeks and 2 day and i have done a test and it was negative i should think that i need to have peiriods to have a baby if not how will i ever have a baby?
i have a lovley husband who has taken my 3 children 12, 9,6 on from a previous marrage and all i want is to have a baby with him i feel so sad and desprate i am not sleeping well and cry lots i cant help thinking about the babys i have lost the first would of been due on boxing day and my cousins baby was due christmas day i just cant get over it and my auntie is now also expecting please help i feel like it will never be our turn!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

I know your frustration. I recently lost my son at 18 weeks gestation. The thing is, it's not just when you are emotionally ready- you have to wait for your body to be ready as well. If you wait until your cycles are back to normal you have a much better chance of having a successful pregnancy.

You should look into picking up the book "empty cradle, broken heart" to deal with the grief and questions that come along with losing a pregnancy. I'm currently reading it myself.

Answer 2

I myself have been through 2 Mc, One In Jan of 06 and December 24 of 2006. They were between 3-5 wks each, no D&C needed. I understand the wanting and desire to have another baby. The good news is that you are ovulating and getting pregnant. So you are able to conceive which is half the battle. What did your blood work show. I rcently saw my ONGYN, due the MC on 12/24 and she said that I myself too have to have a blood panel to see why I keep MC. I have a 6yr old. I was also told to keep taking pre natal and also 81mg of baby aspirin, to prevenet any blood clots that may be causing the MC. I am going for my Blood work 1/11 and we wil see what the problem is. Your body needs to heal from the trauma of MC. Wait a full month, before TTC.You need to sleep and eat well, or your body will not do well when TTC. When your body is ready it will be your turn. I would call your OBGYN and explain the perios issue. Also get prenatal, if you dont have them already, and mention the baby aspirin too. Good luck

Answer 3

I am so so sorry for your losses. Reading this reminds me so much of myself. I had my 3rd miscarriage on the 5th Nov. This miscarriage has devastated me more than the others. I have endometriosis, pcos and cervical abnormalities. The last time I conceived I thought it was going to be different then it happened - i noticed bleeding and over the days the bleeding got worst and the tremendous pain began. I was rushed to hospital and had a complete miscarriage. I have cried buckets since the 5th Nov and they still flow and flow and flow - it hurts so much my sister in law fell pregnant 3 weeks before me and i have to watch her day by day, her bump getting bigger her blooming and all the excitiment. Everyone was there for me at first but then after a while you are the one left with the feeling of emptiness and dreading the dates that will cause you more heartache - the day the baby is due. We are now trying again because like you we are so so desperate and each time the period comes your dreams are shattered all over again. Its the worst feeling ever to watch other people experience what you want and it makes you want your turn sooner rather than later. Well all i can say is we need to keep strong and keep trying... keep our chins up and hope our baby dust comes our way soon. Thinking of you and wishing you all the luck in 2007 x

Answer 4

Hi

I just wanted to say I feel for you. I'm currently trying to get pregnant but something wrong (PID, cyst? still waiting for the NHS to test). I know how badly the desire is to have a baby, and how hard it is to relax, even when that's the right thing to do. However I just wanted to share a success story with you, that has made me happy and inspired me. A friend of the family finally found happiness with the right man when she was 37, tried for a baby when she was 38, and went through many years of IVF as her eggs were too old, miscarriages followed, she finally had to give up as she was too old. Last year, aged 46 she gave birth to a healthy little girl, naturally conceived and carried to term. I think having hope and faith in you and your relationship will bring you the happiness you deserve. I'm hoping for me and will think of you too!

good luck!

Answer 5

I know its hard to move on after miscarriages, but the more you worry and stress out about everything, the more difficult to concieve! It will be youre time at some point, just sit tight and you WILL come through this, it sounds like your husband is very supportive, make sure you talk to him about everything. Just make sure your both being really healthy, and relaxed (as much as you can be) try not to make it a major issue in youre life, things like babies usually come when you least expect them! and as for feeling down try and lighten your spirits with a hobby or a holiday to try and ease all the stuff youre going through nd have been through.I hope this helps. x

Answer 6

My heart goes out to you. My wife had the same so i know how you are feeling, talking with people helps a lot as many others have been where you are now and i bet that you know a lot who have, its more common than you think. After all there is so much that needs to go right in pregnancy that its a wonder any of us are here at all, with all the x and ys i know thats no concilation. We now have 4 healthy children after losing 4 and now i have put it down to natures way.
As i said my heart goes out to you but i know that it will all be right in the end for you.
Godbless.

Answer 7

Dont stress yourself too much, just look after yourself and try to relax, maybe have a short break somewhere to take your mind off things. I had a miscariage too and its a horrible thing, your body needs time to adjust and heal, as do you emotionally. The time will come, and you'll apreciate it even more. Get some advice from the doctor or health centre, there may be suppliments and health checks that you and your partner could take. Good luck.x

Answer 8

I had a miscarriage at 5 a million/2 months. The physician wanted the toddler to bypass clearly, they continuously attempt to permit the mother's physique do each and every thing it could to furnish delivery. in any different case, the mother will desire a D&C. i replaced into passing huge clots of blood and have been given as much as pass to the bathing room and exceeded out. The physician desperate it replaced into time to intrude (duh) and that they did the D&C. the 2nd miscarriage I wasn't as far alongside and that they only did a D&C in the present day as they think of I expelled the toddler at homestead with all the bleeding.

Answer 9

I feel for you dear. I had a miscarriage myself at 8 weeks. It took me 9 months to conceive again after that. During that time, my OB had done several tests, which included a biopsy of my uterus lining. He discovered my lining doesn't get thick enough to sustain a pregnancy. I was given Prometrium (progesterone) to take from day 16 of my cycle until the end, or until the end of my first trimester if I got pregnant. The progesterone helps to support the embryo until the placenta has fully formed. I had a full-term healthy baby girl.

If your periods are irregular, then it will be hard to determine when you ovulate. When my period was late, my OB had given me Prometrium to help start my period. Yes, the same medication that prevented me from miscarriage also helped me to start my period. Hormones have many functions depending on when they are taken. Once I started my period, I was given Clomid to help me ovulate. This is how I conceived the first time, which is when I miscarried. After which, in addition to the Clomid (taken days 3-7), my OB also gave me Estrace (estrogen) (taken days 8-12) to help thicken my lining, and then finally, the Prometrium from day 16.

It sounds like you don't have problems getting pregnant, just carrying the pregnancy. I would suggest the progesterone treatment with your OB. It sounds like your cycle is just off right now, which may be due to the miscarriages. After my miscarriage, my OB told me to wait one cycle before ttc again. You can suggest the Prometrium to bring on your period so that you can start ttc again. Talk with your doctor about all your options. The best thing you can do right now is to educate yourself as much as possible so you can ask your doctor good questions and talk about treatment options. It will also help redirect your energy from being sad and depressed. Sounds like you have a good man. Hopefully he is emotionally supportive for you too.

The web-sites mentioned by others are good. You might also check out fertilitylifelines.com. This site was recommended by my fertility specialist to purchase fertility meds. However, when I signed up for their free magazine, they immediately mailed me a whole booklet of information about infertilty treatment options.

My prayers are with you. God bless you.

Answer 10

.hi im so sorry ive been through it to, i had no period since july 15th then got pregnant sept then found out it was twins, but one sack was empty the other had a baby, i was so confused as im with my partner of 3 half yrs he was gutted as we then found out the heart beat was very low, in and out of hospital i was for 3 weeks then on the third week it had died,, so went for a D,N,C in nov 2006 but still havent had a period yet, but i have been taking my temp and it said on the 28th dec my temp was low and now its high i think i was ovulating but everyones told me i carnt but how did i get pregnant before so im at the doctors tom so will let you now

good luck it will be ok thats what i keep saying