my friend goes out with someone who already has a girl. how do i tell her not to?

Question

my friend goes out with a boy who has a lot of other girls. my friend knows about it but she doesnt care. she lets him kiss and be all up on other girls who are even her friends.

Answer 1

well its Ur friend life
try with him once and second and third dont loss the hope
tell her that he is enjoying life with er and he doesn't lover her
and tell her that he has allot of girls ad he is not ready to be with u
and tell her where is Ur honor to allow urself with someone dont like u and he is just enjoy time with u for kisses

Answer 2

Why would you?

I've dated and gone with women that have other boy friends. As long as the people are open about it and everyone is honest, I don't see either the problem, or what business it is of yours.

There are many of use that consider polyamory a way of life. With 60% of men cheating and 40% of women cheating, perhaps it's time to realize that some people just are wired to be monogamous.

My last relationship was with a guy and a girl. The three of us dated. Occasionally, all of us would make love together. For reasons that had to do with issues not germaine here, I had to leave that relationship, but I am still very much in love with both of them. They are still together.

Answer 3

Basically, you don't tell her not to. If she is aware of what is happening and she is fine with it....let it go. She is not hurting anyone but herself in the long run, and she may not be doing that. Not everyone wants to be in a commited relationship. If she is enjoying her life, let her live it. If she didn't know about the other females that may be different, but she chooses to be in that situation. Nothing you say will change her mind, and it could cause problems between the two of you.

Answer 4

She is a very liberal and free spirited girl. It probably has something to do with her upbringing. You tend to do what you learn in your environment.
She is obviously very secure within herself and does not take things very seriously for now. She will probably have many men in her life before she settles down to one.
She wants to experience lust and passion with anyone who is willing, she does not choose or exclude anyone, along as they are willing.
This scenario might get her into trouble with spouses and mates of the men she is doing things with. Unfortunately she is not concerned with anything but her own needs at this time.

Answer 5

tell her that she is just another girl in his life. the person thats gonna end up getting hurt is her. one day hes gonna leave her like he did to so many others girls. n he'll move on in a heartbeat. but shes the one whos gonna be crying in eating ice cream alone in her room. if she really want that thats her choice. u done what u could

Answer 6

If she knows about it then there is not much you can do. Just tell her how you feel and let it go at that. She has the right to date whomever she wants. I'm guessing she problably has low self esteem or she wouldn't tolerate this.

Answer 7

Your friend is going to do what she wants to do no matter what you say. The more you try to talk her out of it the more she will most likely go for it.

Answer 8

being a friend means being there for her when she finds the truth about this guy! you could be a friend by telling your friend all about this guy and she couldn't beleive you. But let her see for her ownself she wouldnt beleive anyone but her own eyes!

Answer 9

if you already told her and she dont listen thats her fault she is the one that will mess up a good friendship.she putting a boy before yall two.

Answer 10

ok u need to tell her that she can't be sucked up into the popular crowd. tell her that he doesn't really like u he doesn't want anything but u fill in the blank. best of luck.

Shelly