my kids r not in school yet because they r small and my husband work 2 shifts my husband donot want me 2 work coz of the kids but if i find a good solution he will accept plzzz help me?
thanks alot
2007-01-03 03:48:45 · 12 answers · asked by em omar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There are several things you can do. I understand you need to socialize a bit and feel a morale booster. So a little part time job that could be during the hours he is home sleeping and the babies are in bed might work out. Or get together with some other young mothers and discuss the possibly with them of a job. They need money too.
Another choice is working out of the home. Working on crafts or any other talents or skills you have.
Keep checking the employment advertising, there always jobs that are a few hours a week that most people cannot take but would work for you. Don't give up, keep looking.
2007-01-03 04:54:58 · answer #1 · answered by Miki M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless your have the education or experience of getting a good paying job, it may not be worth it to go to work. You have to evaluate what your earning capabilities are to those of your newly to be acquired expenses like daycare, transportation costs, lunches, new clothes, etc, etc. Now if you need time off to get a break from everyday stuff, maybe put the kids in for half a day or so 2 or 3 times a week. Will give you time for personal stuff.
Good luck and take care.
2007-01-03 12:21:53 · answer #2 · answered by This, That & such 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could always keep more children in your home if it is a matter of wanting more money. If it is a matter of getting you out of the house find a place that has a Mommy's Day out and take advantage of it. You will all be better off for it. Also Thank your lucky stars you have a man who is wiling to work hard for his family there are so many today that are not.
2007-01-03 12:10:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your husband wisdom, and be submissive to his wishes, he want the best for his children, and if he truly didn't think that his wife could not handle this, then he would already have you working full time, and the kids in daycare.
Lady, he wants you to be stay at home mom, and take care of your resonbilities of your home, and family.
You could even do a job on the side of babysitting at home.
2007-01-03 11:56:58 · answer #4 · answered by ourjacobdavid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i have know idea where you live so i do not know what is available out there, you could put an add in the paper looking for someone to baby sit, either taking your kids there or having someone come to your home like a nanny of something.
2007-01-03 12:35:30 · answer #5 · answered by picture 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find someone else who is in your position and trade child care duties...you watch her child(ren) when she works and she does the same for you. You'll both save on child care expenses.
PS try not to work out of the home too much because preschool children need a parent home with them.
2007-01-03 12:36:10 · answer #6 · answered by Gnometomes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think daycare is pointless. You would be working to pay for daycare, not having anmore coming in. Maybe you can find a job that has daycare. So u can still spend time with them, and it won't cost so much
2007-01-03 14:40:00 · answer #7 · answered by sheriviner 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for a stay at home job or start your own business that way you are still at home with the kids.
2007-01-03 12:33:07 · answer #8 · answered by Babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
babysit someone else's kid at your house and charge them $150 a week. I pay $200 per week for each of my kids to be in daycare.
2007-01-03 12:05:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you like to work? if it is for the money, then deduct the cost of childcare from what you will bring home and see if it is worth it financially. enjoy your kids, pretty soon they will be off to school and you will miss them. good luck.
2007-01-03 11:59:14 · answer #10 · answered by cheese food product 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋