is going to do suicide .. but wonders if I should?

Answer 1

I just looked at all your questions Jake and don't think you want to top yourself at all. I think you want people to dissuade you from that course of action. The choice is yours anyway.

Answer 2

Hello, THank you for reaching out. Suicide is never an easy solution and can mean different things to many people.
It is a way to end the hurt, and I have to say I can't imagine what you must be going through, but you took a very gigantic step by wanting to talk about it here. It isn't easy for you I am sure, and if you ever want to talk about this privately, you are welcome to use my email... anytime.

I just want you to know that your friends and family will miss you dearly when you are gone, and although you may tell them and reasure them before hand , or in a letter that it isn't thier fault, speaking as a parent, the blame is always placed somewhere. The parents automatically take on the blame and your suicide will have residual effects on your siblings and other members of your family.
After you are gone, there will constantly be unanswered questions of " Why" " He should have come to me" and senerios are gone over like a broken record that just don't stop and most times in order to end the never ending cycle... the person who can't cope with the pain and loss, and doubt and fear that came into thier lives because of your death will eventually make an attempt on thier life too.
It is reality my friend, the statistics are there to show it. Please reconsider or think it through. IS there anyway you can talk to someone about this? Sometimes writing your thoughts on paper helps, to write it and read it back somehow makes the pain and the fears seem not so demonizing.
You are in control, just right now you have given your power to these feelings. They are only that, feelings they can't control you, unless you let them... Suicide is not a way to take back your power, it is a way to end the continuous struggle between you and your feelings, but there is no winners.
Life may seem so horrible and unbearable for you, and no one knows what you have endured except for you.
Suicide is painful, not just for those who are left behind, but the majority of attempts are not successful the first try... and sometimes it can last the rest of your life , a reminder of what almost happened, not just scars on your body, but lasting mental and physical defects...ask yourself, is it really worth it?

Please talk to someone... telling friends and family is great, but I just want you to be aware of thier reactions. Suicide is not an Icky word, but it is treated that way. Your family and friends may not know what to say, and yes once they find out, you may feel like they treat you differently, and don't understand. Suicide is difficult for all persons, and it is hard to know the right or wrong thing to say. Just be assured that what they percieve to be being delicate towards you, is thier way of dealing with it, and it isn't meant to be condescending or minimalizing you in any way.

God Bless,

Answer 3

Hey Jake. Sorry you're feeling so bad. Maybe you feel hopeless. Nobody's really heard how you're feeling. Have you given up trying to get them to hear. Maybe you need to tell somebody else. What if this is the only time you get here. Aren't there things that you love about life? Things that even for a second feel alittle better than abject pain. Maybe you need to look for more of those things. I know that life really hurts sometimes. Try to find the people who listen. Try to find what doesn't hurt. Don't leave yet. Tell somebody who can do something. Somebody besides the computer. We all need people. If you do it there will come a moment of regret that you didn't try harder to do the things I just said.

Answer 4

No! God created you for a purpose! No one can replace you and even though you may feel alone and like the circumstances in your life are too much, there is a light at the end of the tunnel and there are people out there who care about you. You need to find some folks who you can open up with and tell them what's going on in your head and heart. It may not seem like it'll make a difference right now but you will feel better! Don't give up!!

Answer 5

You are letting life overwhelm you.....life is an adventure and the learning of new things and ideas...you wouldn't be here if you didn't matter...if your life ends prior to it's time..you may not have stayed around long enough to fulfill your destiny which would effect alot of people, places and things. Try to think bout your family and friends, they love you. Would be fair to leave them?
To be honest, I attempted it once, when I awoke in the hospital, I was surround by my family smiling at me. I had been out for 3 days and they didn't think I would make it. My Grandmother was standing at the end of my bed with this big smile on her face and her eyes sparkled....I told her she was an angel. She really is now. That is when I realized that I would never think of or attempt
suicide again.....my family loves me very much and they sure didn't understand what I did. Things will always work out, have faith and believe in yourself. Don't make life so hard and laugh as much as you possibly can. God Bless you.

Answer 6

Permanent solution to a temporary problem.

Life in general is good, certain periods of our lifes are difficult. Suicide is a selfish selfcenter act that robs the people that do care about you.

In short don't do it. Talk to a friend, see a counselor, talk to a minister, Get help.. If you ask for help you will find it.

Answer 7

i just looked at your questions......all about suicide and then that pregancy one....i dont understand why you are asking this question...are you looking for our approval???you say you ARE going to 'do' suicide....then you say you wonder if you should.....thats a bit of a contradiction....but in my opinion it is a bad idea....at the age of fourteen things are only going to get better....you are going to find a girlf someday marry her have children work in a job that you like...have a wonderful home....if you think 'no that is sooo long away...i cant wait that long' Yes you can....tons of people on Yahoo Answers waited....and i bet you they are glad they did because they realised that things ARE and DID eventually get better...you dont know when but they will and are going to get better....

so dont wonder....only thing you have to wonder about is where that stupid suicide idea came from...

Answer 8

Call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline.

It is a 24-hour, toll-free suicide prevention service available to anyone in suicidal crisis. If you need help, please dial 1-800-273-TALK (8255). You will be routed to the closest possible crisis center in your area. With over 120 crisis centers across the country, our mission is to provide immediate assistance to anyone seeking mental health services. Call for yourself, or someone you care about. Your call is free and confidential.

Para obtener asistencia en español durante las 24 horas, llame al 1-888-628-9454

Why should I call the Lifeline?
From immediate suicidal crisis to information about mental health, crisis centers in our network are equiped to take a wide range of calls. Some of the reasons to call 1-800-273-TALK are listed below.
Call to speak with someone who cares
Call if you feel you might be in danger of hurting yourself
Call to find referrals to mental health services in your area
Call to speak to a crisis worker about someone you're concerned about

Answer 9

Um i think you better think twice about doing it. In high school I had a friend that did it. It totally devistated alot of people (I'm talking about her entire family, people at school including friends and teachers, her entire community. You should also remember that once you do it you can't come back.
Are things really that bad that this is the last resort??

Answer 10

Nothing is so bad here on earth compared to going to hell. Take a deep breath, and know that you have to try your best in life. Killing yourself is not going to rid your problems. Call a doctor or a pastor and atleast give it a chance. You may be suprised at tomorrow.

Answer 11

If you want to kill yourself you can do it. But it does not have to be today, Waite to read all the texts!LOL! then you might even think that this is a silly idea. If life really s-ks you can always end it. but when you end it you can never turn back.that will be
"the end"
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PS. do not call 911 they will lock you up and you will wish that you killed yourself after u read what they put on your record.
God bless you!