I'm 18 years old and in the 12 grade and i think i'm pregnant. The daddy already has 3 kids. what should i do??
2007-01-03 03:39:00 · 9 answers · asked by Short Chick 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
That's a tough question. There are so many things you can do, but it depends on what you are most comfortable with. Are you prepared to care for your baby? Can you give it what it needs? I'm sure you've got to be scared as h**l right now. Kids are expensive and very demanding, but I wouldn't trade mine in for the world. I was young when I got pregnant to and was terrified. After a month of contemplation I decided to keep my baby and she is 8 yo now. It was hard, but I made it and am going to college now to get my degree (better late than never). What ever you decide don't worry about what other people are going to say this is your life not theirs. Good luck to you. I wish you the best.
2007-01-03 03:46:29 · answer #1 · answered by water.bratz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until your next period is due, if it comes then don't stress it you are not pregnant, but if it doesn't come then take a pregnancy test and see what it says. After that if you are not, you need to get on birth control and if you continue to have sex please use a condom. Also, I don't know how old the guy is but you don't need to be messing with him, he already has 3 kids, and you are only 18, there are plenty of other guys. But I know how you feel, those feelings can really get you but believe me you have time and you will meet someone else that is better for you. And I'm only 21yrs old, so trust me.
2007-01-03 11:45:27 · answer #2 · answered by Jazz21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath, take a pregnancy test and then talk with your family and friends. You will need to do some soul searching about how you handle a pregnancy. The first thing to do is find out for sure. You can go to a crisis pregnancy center for a free test if you can't afford one on your own. Good luck to you!
2007-01-03 11:43:31 · answer #3 · answered by medicpaige 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you think your pregnant? what signs are you worried about..and how late are you? You could just be late, or too worried which is making your body act up.
2007-01-03 12:14:58 · answer #4 · answered by smiles15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly do whats best for you don' let anyone make a decision for you do it from your heart so later on down the line you wont have any regrets
2007-01-03 12:00:16 · answer #5 · answered by janet s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider adoption. I am soooooo glad I was adopted at birth. My birth parents were not ready to be parents. I have a relationship with them now (I am 37), but I have wonderful adoptive parents who loved me and gave me the world!
By the way, adoption is not "giving your child away", it is "giving your child a life."
2007-01-03 11:44:47 · answer #6 · answered by educ8rkids 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
get tested and tell your parents and choose guys with less baggage .and less experience thats an std waiting to happen and always use condoms
2007-01-03 11:41:27 · answer #7 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shouldve left him alone a long time ago. he aint no good if already has 3 kids get an abortion
2007-01-03 11:45:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all do he take care of them and if he dont get an orbortion till u fine one who is right and tell your parents
u is barely grown they knew it was goin to happen anyways so they should understand.
2007-01-03 11:45:00 · answer #9 · answered by sheniqua c 1 · 0⤊ 4⤋