2007-01-03 03:23:27 · 15 answers · asked by punxsychick_21420 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
pussy whip him if he gets what he wants you get what you want
2007-01-03 03:25:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My question is why did you not talk about this during your dating? That was the time that you and your partner talk about what is expected in the relationship.
If you did not talk about wanting to be in charge of the marriage, and he was working under the general idea that the male was head-of-household as you were dating and leading to marriage, then you mislead him. Do not ask for change now that marriage has happened. You should have asked for change BEFORE getting married.
2007-01-03 11:40:05 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just might help to get more details on what you exactly mean by "taking charge". Why would you want to take charge? Marriage isn't about taking charge, is it? You may take charge of responsibilities in a marriage, but to take charge of a marriage itself, I don't know.
2007-01-03 11:27:34 · answer #3 · answered by houstonian352000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call me crazy or old-fashion, but here is my feelings. Marriage is not about who is in charge, but about the equality of each other. You and your mate should be equal. If you want to be the dominate or superior person in the marriage, then how is that a real marriage?
2007-01-03 11:31:43 · answer #4 · answered by dragon_fireborn_wolf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't there an easier way of shareing rather than taking charge?
You will find all kinds of couples who one feels they have to be in charge, and if the other doesn't agree, it usually isn't a happy marriage.
Go to your local library and see if there are any books written on HOW TO TAKE CHARGE OF YOUR MARRIGE!
I wouldn't want a husband who felt he could be in charge of me, and if I were a man, I wouldn't want a lady to be in charge of me either.
Try the 50/50 thing!
2007-01-03 11:31:55 · answer #5 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak out let your spouse know what you want or what your trying to say. Tell him your not going to seat in the backseat of the marriage anymore that you want to take charge. Girl power woman!
2007-01-03 11:36:41 · answer #6 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one person should take charge. It's a 50/50 deal. "Taking Charge" is controlling. NOT GOOD!!!
2007-01-03 11:28:06 · answer #7 · answered by Nana 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To do that you must establish the dominant position in the relationship. Your spouse must see you as in charge, in control and the boss with the final say. Men are hard to train to be submissive to their female partner, but it can be done with excellent results. Your partner can assume his public personality at work, ect, but at home, he must be trained to assume a submissive position to you. Email me if you wish.
2007-01-03 11:31:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoever controls the checkbook, controls the marriage. Sex does not control the marriage because you can get that somewhere else...but not without money!
2007-01-03 11:29:40 · answer #9 · answered by Back in the game... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Allowing your husband be the head of household, and over you, and give him respect, honour and obedience and your full submissive and surrendering heart attiutde and you will have a blessed wonderful marriage!
2007-01-03 11:36:19 · answer #10 · answered by ourjacobdavid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The male/husband is the head / lead / dominant partner
in the marriage....He is in charge...
2007-01-03 11:26:55 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋