why are women complicated species? i mean, we're full of jealousy, never happy & forever nagging.?

Answer 1

First off... it is just not women.. it is people.. everyone and I mean everyone has their short commings.. some more relevant than others. I understand your frustration... But I noticed that the three points you brought up are all related.. in the fact that you are focusing the what is lacking for you. You will never find a perfect person as they do not exsist.. the best you will find is if you can live with that persons short commings.. and that is the same for someone who is interested in you.

And if people say the are not this way or that way.. I have to laugh.. because they are not being true to themselves.. at least you are recognizing and wanting to do something about it..

First off do not focus on other people's problems so much.. they will only aggrivate you.. and dont depend on others as they will only let you down.

Pray for peace of mind and healing of your thoughts.. do a little community service it will take your focus off of what you are missing in your life.. and focus on bettering your thoughts.

Watch your diet as foods tend to contribute to moodyness.. excersize... is very good and only be concerned about how to better yourself... you can not change others however you can change yourself.. People are dysfunctional... and while we need to live in peace with each other... sometimes we need to realize that everyon has problems or is a problem. But how we all deal with it is what determines our true characters!

Answer 2

You cannot form an opinion about what women are based on what you are. (I'm not being fresh here - you're the one who said "we're full of jealousy".)

Not all women have jealousy. I have never had a shred of jealousy. Not all women are "never happy". I'm happy a good part of the time. Finally, I have never nagged in my life. Also, I've known some men who are quite the nags, but people don't tend to call it "nagging" because men's voices are lower than women's.

You need to work on those things you've pointed out that you do, realize it isn't because you're a woman, and look past the little circle of people you live in and see that beyond your little circle the world is full of sold, well adjusted, women who have no jealousy, don't nag, can be happy, and belong to the same species that men do.

I wouldn't have answered this question, but I find it kind of sad that so many women have such an inaccurate view of what all the other women in the world must be.

You are not of a different species than men are.

Answer 3

Here's a different way of looking at it:

By the time the Lord made woman, he was into His sixth day of working overtime. An angel appeared and said, "Why are you spending so much time on this one?"

And the Lord answered, "Have you seen My spec sheet on her? She has to be completely washable, but not plastic, have over 200 movable parts, all replaceable and able to run on diet coke and leftovers, have a lap that can hold four children at one time, have a kiss that can cure anything from a scraped knee to a broken heart -- and she will do everything with only two hands."

The angel was astounded at the requirements. "Only two hands? No way! And that's just on the standard model? That's too much work for one day. Wait until tomorrow to finish."

"But I won't," the Lord protested. "I am so close to finishing this creation that is so close to My own heart. She already heals herself when she is sick AND can work 18 hour days."

The angel moved closer and touched the woman. "But you have made her so soft, Lord."

"She is soft," the Lord agreed, "but I have also made her tough. You have no idea what she can endure or accomplish."

"Will she be able to think?", asked the angel.

The Lord replied, "Not only will she be able to think, she will be able
to reason and negotiate."

The angel then noticed something, and reaching out, touched the woman's cheek. "Oops, it looks like you have a leak in this model. I told you that you were trying to put too much into this one."

"That's not a leak," the Lord corrected, "that's a Tear!"

"What's the tear for?" the angel asked.

The Lord said, "The tear is her way of expressing her joy, her sorrow, her pain, her disappointment, her love, her loneliness, her grief and her pride."

The angel was impressed. "You are a genius, Lord ... You thought of everything! Woman is truly amazing."

And she is! Women have strengths that amaze men. They bear hardships and they carry burdens, but they hold happiness, love and joy. They smile when they want to scream. They sing when they want to cry. They cry when they are happy and laugh when they are nervous. They fight for what they believe in. They stand up to injustice. They don't take "no" for an answer when they believe there is a better solution. They go without so their family can have. They go to the doctor with a frightened friend. They love unconditionally. They cry when their children excel and cheer when their friends get awards. They are happy when they hear about a birth or a wedding. Their hearts break when a friend dies. They grieve at the loss of a family member, yet they are strong when they think there is no strength left. They know that a hug and a kiss can help to heal a broken heart. Women come in all sizes, in all colors and shapes. They'll drive, fly, walk, run or e-mail you to show how much they care about you. The heart of a woman is what makes the world keep turning! They bring joy and hope. They have compassion and ideals. They give moral support to their family and friends. Women have vital things to say and everything to give.

However if there's one flaw in women, it is that they tend to forget their worth.

Answer 4

If you actually work on not being jealous and work on forcing yourself not to nag, you'll find that you're happier. Life is going to suck at times. The people who make it thru are those whose attitude is more adaptable to the circumstances. You can train yourself to not be jealous and you can make yourself stop nagging. When you begin to work on that, you'll find that happiness and contentment has found a home within you.

PS. I've been in all men work forces too many times to say that only women are jealous or only women nag.

Answer 5

Right..... Since I'm never jealous, mostly happy and don't nag, I'm not sure what you're talking about? I have seen men and women that fit the above description though. It usually stems from a low self-worth. Seek therapy.

Answer 6

I have to say that is an incorrect statement that has been generalized by your comment. I have been known to nagg my boyfriend and you know why? cause he doesn't listen, its not natural. but my boyfriend also nags me (sex). As far as jealousy goes, you really cannot lie that with the female species completely, males can be jealous whether they see their girlfriend talking to another man, or their best friend got that car that he wanted so badly.

and no hun, your just jealous. why the female bashing? did your lesbian lover leave you for your sister?

Answer 7

Happiness comes from within...jealousy only hurts yourself in the long run...we just have to get over it or we'll go mad...nagging is because we sometimes feel as though no one is listening or responding to the things we say.

Answer 8

Speak for yourself. If you want to be a walking stereotype, go ahead. I'm not.
No Jealousy - I applaud other women when they do well for themselves.
No Unhappiness - I do whatever I can to make myself happy. I don't complain about it or mope.
No Nagging - From my experience men nag much more than women do.

Answer 9

well capt obvious....lol
you are a female? why are women quick to compete with each other to the point of sabotage while men compete more as a team? why oh why do women make the most simple things so difficult? why do women say men are dogs then are surprised when a man acts like a dog?

Answer 10

You seem like a sad woman. Look around you and see what makes you jealous and change those things. find something or someone to make you happy.