I'm pregnant now and i'm 15 i don't know what to do. what should I do?

Answer 1

talk to your parents because they're going to be your support system. know that your life isn't over because you have a baby. tell the father and you two together decide what you're going to do. be smart and know that tough times are ahead but if you're strong enough nothing can stop you from accomplishing whatever you want.

Answer 2

talk to your parents now. get offline and go to the people that love you and will support you. Don't procrastinate. The longer you wait the worse it will be. You need medical care. I don't agree with abortion myself. However, if that is something you are considering it needs to be done early to avoid complications. If you choose to allow the baby to live, then you are going to need prenatal care. The important thing is your not alone.

Yes, people it is a baby when it is in the womb. It is just in it's earliest and most fragile stages of life.

You have several choices. Abortion, which you may regret later. Many woman get damage to there uterous to the point that they cannot bear children later in life. Never mind the guilt you may feel for taking a life. Allowing the child to be born, that would then give you two more decisions to make. Putting up the child for adoption or raising the baby with the help of your family.

In the future, use a condom, birthcontrol, or just abstain from sex.

Answer 3

Like said before - talk to your parents, or whomever it is you live with, if your parents aren't around.

Being pregnant at a young age is not the end of the world. It doesn't mean you have to give the baby up - adoption or abortion. If you set your mind to it, and have support, you can finish school, go on to college, and be a wonderful mother.

Also make sure to talk things out with the father of this baby. He may or may not stick around. But he should have known just as you (hopefully) knew that pregnancy is an outcome of sex.

Answer 4

I was pregnant at 16. It was very hard for me, but I choose to tell my parents and had the baby. For awhile, I thought about adoption, but I couldn't do it. Abortion was never really an option for me. The biological father left, but when I had my baby, I didn't care. She was the most beautiful thing I'd ever seen. Because I was so young, it pushed me to be the best mother I could be.
Then, when I turned 18 I met the man who is now my husband. He loves me and my daughter, who is now 9. I realized that God had something so much better for me. God would've "understood" if I had made other choices, but I was blessed for going through with it and having this precious child.
By the way, if your parents aren't supportive, there are plenty of places you can go. Just don't feel pressured into anything. Good luck and God bless.

Answer 5

Do Not Listen to these ignorant bastards telling you to have an abortion and/or talking crazy to you. You're not a baby and you already know that you have to be responsible for your actions. Tell your parents/guardian/ close relative, adult ( preferrably your parents) but u need to tell someone that you trust NOW. Yeah nine times outta ten they're gonna be mad but it is what it is. You need to make arrangements for natal care as soon as possible. Keep your baby and love him/her- you do not wanna have any abortion baby. Yeah, it's gonna be tough, I mean hard going through this so young, but you will get through especially if you have the support that you need. Make sure that you talk with your parents- they shouldn't abandon you because you're pregnant honey. IF you dont have anyone close like parents or an aunt to turn to, then there are plenty of government services available to you and your baby. Don't forget about the baby's father. It is as much of a responsibilty for him as it is for you and his family needs to be involved as well. If you need anymore advice email me at [e-mail]

Good Luck, and everything will be okay.

Answer 6

PRAY!!!!! Having a child is very hard! But if you are willing to take responsibility for your actions, then you need to talk to your parents. Pray before you do, cause you know your parents are going to be upset. Your 15! If my daughter got pregnant at 15, I wouldnt have to worry cause her Daddy would kill her. But that's not the issue, you need to talk to your parents. If you are honest and your parents are understanding, then you should be ok. Also, please dont abort the baby, God allowed you to get pregnant, and it is a life. Think about that! Good Luck!!!

Answer 7

I know how it feels to be pregnant at 15 years old, it's scary and talking to your parents can be hard. You have to make the chioce either you wanna keep the baby or put the baby up for Adoption there are alot of people out there that want a baby just like my husband and I. I wont tell you to put your baby up for adoption but I will tell you this going to school and taking care of a baby is very hard work but if you really wanna keep your baby then keep your baby but do remember that you need to be able to support your baby on your own. Please make sure that you talk to someone about this and make your choice. If you wanna talk to me anytime you can send me a message on Yahoo or e-mail me.

Answer 8

>>Hugs<< i can only imagine how difficult this must be for u. personally i think u should get some professional advice from a family planner or doctor. if u think u have support from ur family and friends, and u think u would be able to give this child a good life then i would consider keeping the unborn baby, if u think u wouldnt be able to do it, u might want to consider giving it up for adoption, on the other hand there is abortion. personally i dont agree wit it, i think if u can go out and sleep with ppl, u need to take responsibility, this child had nuttin to do wit it. and its up to u, unless this child is diagnosed with unbearable diseases or abnormalties i wouldnt consider abortion.
but the decision is up to, like i said, if u think u can do and have the support of ur family, friends and maybe who eva got u pregnant, i kno u will have enough strength within u to take care of the child. i kno ur life will change and things will be very difficult, but u would owe it to the child, if u dont think u can do it, talk about it with ur family and consider giving the baby up for adoption. you may want to seek for a family planner and counsellor, who can help you during this time
good luck and i wish u all the best, i kno u will make the right decision. alot of ppl might want to condemn u for this, but i kno u will do wats right for u and the child.

Answer 9

First, get your partner and both sets of yalls parents together and have a good sit down talk. Do not try to hide it, it will only hurt you and the baby. Second, remember, it is your choice as what to do, not your parents. And lastly, think about this: what would have happened if your parents decided to abort you? There are many ppl out there who would be more than willing to adopt if you chose to carry the baby for them. Good luck, and know that you are in my prayers.

Answer 10

I have been there. I was 14 when i got pregnant with my oldest daughter. You need to think about if you want to keep this child. I did I. I went to school and my mom and dad kept my daughter. I graduated in the top 10.. You need to tell your parents. They wont react like you are thinking they will because I thought mine was going to kill me.. They were very supportive. You need to think long and hard though. Because having a baby this young does change your life completely. My daughters real father didnt help at all.. Everything else in the life of a teenager was more important to him.. I raised my daughter by my self until me and my now husband got together he was the same age as me we got together when we was 17 and he treated my daughter just like she was his.. You need to sit and down and think about it because there arent many teenage boys that are going to be a full pledged father..

Answer 11

First, you shouldn't be having sex at such a young age, but I think perhaps you are aware of that. That depends largely on your personal views, and religious beliefs. Since none of us know you, we can not give you a good answer. I would advise talking to your parents first, then perhaps a councilor, then stop by a local "planned parenthood" they will have alot of information for you on your options. And remember, if you haven't told your parents yet, you need to do so right now, if you think you are old enough at 15 to have sex, then you are more than old enough to talk to your parents about it.