am in a relationship and I believe that we just got out of the "infatuation" stage.....But I find that he is more reciprocal and affectionate with his feelings more so than I. He makes comments like "I cant get enough of you" (whereas I would have said that before but in the past month of so I feel as though showing him affectionate is enough) We are very affectionate and sexual with each other. I have never been attracted to him as much as anyone before and I feel comfort and trustworthy around him. I have never been in true love before and I want to know if this is what it feels like....I dont feel like I have to impress him anymore although I still love to make him happy eg, dinners, gifts etc...
The only problem is that I feel as though he is more "in love" with me than I am with him. I can live without anyone so I am not going to sit here and say I couldnt live without him but I enjoy spending all my time with him....
Is this love? And could he be the one?
2007-01-03 01:53:32 · 7 answers · asked by dawson190154 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
make sure you know you can live without anyone...saying and doing are two different things....put into perspective that you really care for this guy and think about how life would be if he suddenly was no longer there. would you miss him? Sure, everyone loves attention, but being together and enjoying each other is something you must want in order to make a relationship work. He may feel more than you but maybe he is more comfortable opening up with his feelings. Its a plus for you if you feel comfortable and trust him but ask yourself why you feel that way. And while having a physical attraction is great..its not all that counts. If you truly think you love this guy you will know it. Could you stand to see him with another girl? would you be jealous? is there anyone else out there that you think about? have you been open and honest with him about your feelings? Does he know you could live without him or are you afraid to tell him? You have to be honest with him AND yourself. Communication is very important.
2007-01-03 02:24:03 · answer #1 · answered by alymarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible that he could still be in the "infatuation" stage, people tend to go overboard with they're feelings in the very beginning of the relationship.
Give it time and see if your feelings increase and his decrease a bit and you will meet in the middle.
2007-01-03 10:05:16 · answer #2 · answered by Y.a.S.L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can answer the question. It's how you feel, don't think that he loving you is enough. You have to feel it too. Take your time it'll work or maybe not. You be the judge.
2007-01-03 10:04:28 · answer #3 · answered by bluemist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think you are in love with this guy. I think it just infatuation. You have to many doubts.
2007-01-03 18:22:12 · answer #4 · answered by Disha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it can be but i don't think on Ur side. in Ur side it can be infatuation i don't know but i think so may be because u r saving that u can leave without him ask from Ur heart is it true?
2007-01-03 10:30:07 · answer #5 · answered by simple girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep . he could be.. but too much love for me causes relationships to fall apart. i mean, some people just get bored. like i do.
2007-01-03 10:47:15 · answer #6 · answered by sexay16f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quite possibly! How do you feel in your HEART? Listen to your heart.
2007-01-03 09:58:06 · answer #7 · answered by DREAMER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋