how can i find out if my mate is bisexual without giving myself away?
2007-01-03 01:45:22 · 9 answers · asked by melbsxc 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
just ask him what are you afraid of!
Or if you have to be that way hire a male hooker to hit on him! (Yeah great friend you are!!)
2007-01-04 12:37:08 · answer #1 · answered by bentomsun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean without giving away that you are gay and interested in him? You can't. If you are friends, your sexuality should be a subject that can be addressed between you. If you are gay, or he is bisexual, you should both be able to talk about it.
Sexuality is not the whole person; but it is an important component of a person's identity. If you can't be honest with each other about that part of you, then you really aren't friends, because you don't really know each other.
I would start by opening up to him about your own sexuality, then see what he says.
2007-01-03 03:05:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tread carefully, assuming you are talking about another guy, your question wasn't quite clear. If you are interested in your friend, sexually, you need to first consider whiich is more important, your friendship or sex. If you don't know if he is bi, then don't boldy move on him, you need to take it slow and easy, find out if he checks out other guys a lot--all guys check out other guys, but those that are interested check out guys a lot more. Maybe spend more time with him, having fun, playing around, and slowly throwing out some hints or suggestions, lots of guys will jack together, watching porn, that could lead to some interesting discussion.
2007-01-03 06:51:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best way to know for sure... just ask him. If he tells you no then believe him, even if you really don't. When he feels comfortable enough to tell you the truth, he'll tell you. Till then just be supportive of him and his friend, like nothing is different.
2007-01-03 03:38:51 · answer #4 · answered by Jyse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am bi and there is not meny people now this only my landlod and a friend if a person is bi he will go with a man and a worman so dont worry about it only if he starts comming on to you
2007-01-03 02:55:34 · answer #5 · answered by christopherfarrow3 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Follow him around and see if he is seeing women!
2007-01-03 01:48:02 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask him - its no big deal
2007-01-04 06:37:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't tell by the way he or she acts!?
2007-01-03 01:59:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Drama.......friggin just ask.
2007-01-03 01:50:24 · answer #9 · answered by buldawg 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋