My interests have changed but how do white men feel about raising bi-racial (black and white) children? is it an issue or not?
2007-01-03 01:39:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Among white men, biracial kids are the cutest kids around, they always turn out cute, so there should not be any problems about that. If you find the right guy, than no it is not an issue at all. Look at Brad Pitt he is now raising a black, white, and asian child.
2007-01-03 01:44:57 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Know 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Not all men whether they be White, Black, Hispanic, Asian or other worry about situations like that. I think if a man a real man loves a woman and he knows that she has children, then the children would not be a factor no matter what their nationality is. You see there are pieces of men and then there are whole REAL MEN out here in this world. Another thing.......Don't act desperate for a man, stay looking cute girlfriend and make those real men nip at your heels! I have never had a problem with getting a man so take it from me, be cute, don't tell all of your business right away, play a little hard to get, smile a lot even though you have a few problems, and especially be cordial and classy! If one does come along, don't tell the man right away about the children unless he ask. And the big no no is DO NOT LIE ABOUT ANYTHING! Honesty is really the best policy.
2007-01-03 02:09:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have 2 bi-racial children from a previous train wreck of a marriage. When told him I was leaving he claimed I could not do better than him and no white man would want me with 2 black kids. Total BS!!! I found a wonderful man who is what? white, and what? Hella better than him in his best dream. My husband has raised my kids as his own since they were little. We do everything we can to ensure that they see the troll and his really nice family as much as possible. (No, I don't badmouth him in front of them ever.) They have eyes and ears of their own and they know who their "real" dad is -vs- the Biodonner. They are well adjusted and successful.
YES, you can find a white man who sees children not colors. My only suggestion is let them see their other family because the children have a need for all their family even if us adults have no need of baby daddy.
2007-01-03 01:54:23 · answer #3 · answered by firefly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most often to get to the other side so to speak. I have a lot of african friends that have married white women to come and live in uk. It is common practice as is the reverse situation. The other reason is that a lot of black guys fantasize over white women and there is definately a sexual element to it though. I once knew a guy in Senegal who had a african wife there but married a white woman, claiming he was single pourely for the benefits. One day she found out and left him.
2016-05-22 22:39:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your interests have changed....that sounds like you've ran into some bad black men and now you're jaded.
Please remember..a sorry man comes in all colors. Don't think you're going to find Robin Hood just because he's a white guy.
I have a daughter that is black/vietnamese/white and i'm married to her father so I feel what you're worrying about. But I just don't want you to get things twisted.
But, hypothetically, if I dated a black guy, he'd be an upstanding guy obviously and he would be of admirable character and things like color wouldn't be an issue. If you can find a guy like that, you're golden.
Only guys with security issues will have a probleem with an innocent child.
Good luck with that.
2007-01-03 01:44:24 · answer #5 · answered by 11:11 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Sure.
Seems alot of men in general are willing to take on a woman with children period no matter if they are bi-racial or not.
2007-01-03 01:43:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no its not an issue. That should make him proud that he is man enouph to take care of someone else kids. If he doesnt marry because he doesnt want to be seen with half black kids then he is a coward. Biracial kids are SOOO beautiful! you should be more worried about finding a man who would love your kids as his no matter what color or race that man is
2007-01-03 02:34:49 · answer #7 · answered by godisamor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a Lady who had 2 bi - racial children and married a white man. they have 2 children and everyone seems fine. as far as I am concerned if I loved a Lady it wouldn't matter as long as the children understood they were loved and would be treated the same as if they were my own.
2007-01-03 01:43:37 · answer #8 · answered by Marvin R 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I feel like you should figure out what you want first then worry about who you want to be with first....Because how it sounds you act as if its a problem with having mixed children....the question is would you be asking this question if you had white children???
2007-01-03 02:10:16 · answer #9 · answered by lovher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not on here you won't judging by the comments. but hun you are wrong - there are "good" men in every race. don't blinker yourself thinking skin colour makes a good man. there are millions of white women who can tell you about years of abuse they have suffered from white men. get yourself involved in positive community projects and activities - surround yourself with ppl from all races who enhance your life, not the crap out there just because you think a chosen skin colour will solve your problems. when you meet and fall in love with a good man, you are in love with his heart and the person he is. from a "white" woman.
2007-01-03 01:48:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋