I did a horrible thing and I regret it now and know it was wrong but have forgiven myself as I am only human. I still insist that i did it with her best interests in heart but I know I should of left it alone. I knew my best friend, divorced with 3 kids was sleeping with a man who had a girlfriend for past 3 years and he is living with her at the mo. To make it even more complicated I was also sleeping with her and told the unavailable man that I was because I could see that he was just using her and I really cared for her myself.
I know it was wrong and have felt guilty believe me, don't know if they are still together but my friend won't talk to me now. Fair enough...but my question is would you forgive in time and perhaps see that I was trying to look out for her best interests?
2007-01-03 01:33:35 · 18 answers · asked by dsfdg d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She'll understand what you tried to do for her at some point. I know you meant well because this guy was using her, but things would have come out in the open at some point, and you should have probably waited for that time to come instead of doing it the way you did. You made your friend think that you were only looking out for yourself. We know that's not the case, but it looks this way to her. I hope that she will forgive you and look past what happened.
2007-01-03 01:42:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't forgive. I'm sorry. I understand that it was a mistake and you realize it now, and it's true you are only human and we all makes mistakes like that. However, to the person on the receiving end, sex and love are hard to separate and it would really hurt to feel betrayed in that way. It's just best for everyone involved to learn from their mistakes and stay away from each other.
2007-01-03 01:36:16 · answer #2 · answered by mkk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I'd forgive you. Try every once in a while to get in touch with her so she knows the door is still open. When this thing blows up in her face (and it will) she'll be back.
2007-01-03 01:38:02 · answer #3 · answered by mjm52 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't feel too bad. She was probably cheating on all of you. And he could have been cheating on her. What goes around comes around. If it happened to be, I'de pick up the pieces and move on. It would hurt a little though.
2007-01-03 01:37:22 · answer #4 · answered by stephanie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have stayed out of it. Now you need to make things right for all concerned if at all possible. Might I say you were acting like a jerk.
2007-01-03 01:38:41 · answer #5 · answered by seretazandrae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ahe is fed up in the head not to see that he had a side pice but she might be fine with that she rill come a round he will find a nother pice of *** and move on and u will pick up the pices
2007-01-03 01:44:41 · answer #6 · answered by badgoat69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh dude good job seriously he just wanted some ***. i don't know about your motives but. apparently this guys is an asshole. i would have probably done the same. your intentions were noble i feel you shouldn't really be sorry. you should be proud you did the right even thought it caused some pain.
2007-01-03 01:39:30 · answer #7 · answered by deitymike 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you all just need to quit sleeping around!
2007-01-03 01:37:38 · answer #8 · answered by mommyismyname 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When did this turn into The Jerry Springer Show?
2007-01-03 01:35:41 · answer #9 · answered by waxingtheturtle2 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think you did the right thing if u truly cared for her and one day she will see that because the other guy will soon stay with only his other girl..good luck
2007-01-03 01:39:31 · answer #10 · answered by lundie_g 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋