i did cross dressing and did lots hook up online in the past . they re still haunting me . Im scared to go to party , worry ppl will gossip about what i did in the past . too scare to meet others . it stop me from having close relationship with another person cos i keep worry he might find out or some one will tell him . Any advice pls help and cos i stopped doing those things for 2 years now . pls hepl
2007-01-03 01:24:34 · 9 answers · asked by qfitguy 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Babydoll, first of all, If you like crossdressing, there is NO problem with it. I do it all the time. I am a drag queen. Maybe you could even try being a drag queen, and hiding your appearance. Sometimes, i even get mistaken for a girl and boys flirt with me! (It works really well) But on the other hand, I would suggest leaving and going to another city or something. There are PLENTY of bars and clubs where you can dress in drag and be accepted. Thats my advice. A very close gay friend of mine suggested that to me when I was having the same problem. And it's all better now. So, email me if you want to talk more about this, though. Okay?
Pat ;)
2007-01-03 01:32:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, there is nothing wrong with Crossdressing. It is those that feel that it is that have the problem. People have been wearing the clothing of the opposite sex for more years than you can imagine.
As far as going out, don't fret. There are plenty of parties, clubs, etc. for you to go out and enjoy yourself. There really is no reason to stick in town to have a good time. Hop in the car and go someplace and have fun.
Do not feel guilty about crossdressing. It is a natural way for you to embrace the feminine side of your personality.
2007-01-03 03:49:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK honey, there's a time when you gotta move out and live in another city, state if possible. If those people are that retarded, get the hey out of there, no one's forcing to stay in that town, there's plenty of other cities!
2007-01-03 01:28:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 See a therapist to come to grips with your past and with your guilt.
2 Make new friends.
3 Anyone bothers you about your CD'ing tell them it was in the past.
2007-01-03 01:42:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm a woman n i'm shy til u get to understand me. i will sit down in college quiet n no longer talk with all people n wen ppl talk with me i'm getting disturbing...... yet whilst ik u n have been friends i'm lots extra outgoing .... I purely get disturbing around extra present day human beings n i'm getting scared..... adult adult males continuously calls me lovable n lovable cuz i'm shy, short, have been given an incredible physique, im sweetheart til u piss me off, stuff like that......
2016-10-29 21:37:43 · answer #5 · answered by barn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The X dressing is not the problem. the problem is that you feel ashamed.
there is nothing to be ashamed of. you have to learn to accept yourself. don't worry about the retards. ok?
now, go get our fav pair of panties and put them on. ok ?
tom
2007-01-03 03:16:28 · answer #6 · answered by a1tommyL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u think u r not doing anything wrong dont worry
2007-01-03 19:17:49 · answer #7 · answered by john 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey,dressing makes you feel good then just do it,i do and i don't give a crap what others say
2007-01-03 16:41:08 · answer #8 · answered by maryjo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey no problem in that once you are in a crowd that does it in full...
2007-01-03 03:30:15 · answer #9 · answered by anything goes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋