Ok, so theres this girl at my school named Jessica and everyones thinks shes so nice and pretty. She is popular of my school and every one bows down to her. Even the teachers! They walk in and say hi to jamie then walk out! She also has the hottest boyfriend in the world!!! How do I deal with this? Please!?
2007-01-03 01:20:25 · 8 answers · asked by ♥ 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
First of all, envy will destroy you. Stop it! Now, stop obsessing over what you think this girl has. Do you know how many seemingly perfect people actually have screwed up lives. She may be pretty but she might be hiding low-self esteem issues. She may have a hot boyfriend, but he may be cheating on her. You're putting her on a pedestal just like everyone else, so what do you expect.
Start looking at this chick as a human being like you with faults, vunerabilities and weaknesses and stop looking at this chick like she's better than you. She's not.
Just focus on your schooling. Looks can only take you so far in life. And there'll always be someone prettier, smarter, richer, etc. So stop worrying about it.
Just focus on bettering yourself. It's all you can do.
2007-01-03 01:40:11 · answer #1 · answered by 11:11 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you that most of the popular girls from when I was in high school are all married and have babies, very dull and average. Probably her fate. As for you, you can use the time to develop your talents and outdo her in the end.
I graduated high school in 2000. It's amazing what a difference seven years makes.
2007-01-03 01:25:41 · answer #2 · answered by Danagasta 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you never mentioned anything negative about her personally, it sounds like you are jealous of her status to be honest. All you can do is live your life, don't worry about her..Try to stand out in your own way. Worrying about the popularity of others is kind stupid...if you want to be as popular as her, why don't you try hanging out with her...get into her circle of friends or something.
2007-01-03 01:28:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore her and be the best you that you can be. Eventually school will be over and you'll realize how little it matters in the long run.
2007-01-03 01:27:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, when you leave school how popular you were means nothing.
2007-01-03 01:27:57 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her. Why should you have to 'deal with' anything? Just be yourself.
2007-01-03 01:23:14 · answer #6 · answered by CrankyYankee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care? Just ignore it.
2007-01-03 02:12:41 · answer #7 · answered by Mandy43110 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deal with what? Mind your own life please? Are you jealous of her or something? Jeez, girls are so stupid sometimes...
2007-01-03 01:25:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋