When yo do not do the things the way he wants, why would someone start kicking the walls, chest drawers, throw remote control, makes a fist as if he is going to punch?
2007-01-03 00:30:15 · 21 answers · asked by bubi 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
LEAVE HIM NOW! It can only get worse...he clearly has anger issues and eventually he will take it out on you. Leave while you can, because you don't want to be the person who ends up saying, "He hits me because he loves me. It is my fault, I should have done exactly what he said..."
Beware, if you ask him to attend Anger management...he might take it out on you. Proceed with caution...but in my opinion, don't even deal with him and leave him.
2007-01-03 00:34:18 · answer #1 · answered by gnomus12 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Immaturity. Most people develop out of this stage by the age of 4.
I was in a relationship like that once. It got more violent as time went on until I dumped his a**, best decision I could have made.
2007-01-03 01:28:49 · answer #2 · answered by Murazor 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people have a problems showing their emotions so they leave them bottled up inside and eventually explode. Anger management might help the situation and even more open dialogue between this guy and his family/friends. He could also just be under a lot of stress. Try talking to him and working out the problem, if this doesn't work you might try suggesting anger management.
2007-01-03 00:33:27 · answer #3 · answered by lonestarlady 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because he's a child who has no control over his temper. I'd stay away from him. He sounds like he's not pressing the right button on the elevator. In any case, (and I mean in ANY case) you do not have to take that kind of behaviour from anyone. It's time he grew up.
2007-01-03 00:36:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is this new behavior? If it is, then this person needs to see his physician immediately. One of the signs of several medical conditions, is behavior changes. He needs to be frank with his doctor, and if you are his partner you need to go with him and help him be clear about what is happening. If this is a sudden and dramatic change in his personality, then you could be looking at a brain tumor or something similar.
If this is nothing new, then its an issue of coping when things aren't in his control, such as a 2yr old who doesn't get his way. Men who don't grow out of this become abusive to their partner, and my advice for you is to leave and protect yourself.
2007-01-03 00:40:25 · answer #5 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because he is a violent individual with a bad temper. I suggest that you watch out b/c it does seem like hitting would be next. Get out while you can you don't need to be any ones punching bag.
2007-01-03 02:13:03 · answer #6 · answered by Broken hearted 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in a relationship with this person you should get out of it right now. If you are this person seek help. This anger problem will only get worse.
2007-01-03 00:54:31 · answer #7 · answered by courage 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because he is very insecure and lacks confidence in himself, as well as being very immature. His way of handling that is to be kind of defensively aggressive.
Be careful, it could get worse.
2007-01-03 00:41:22 · answer #8 · answered by Kedar 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a spoiled brat on your hands. Maybe his mother used the word"NO". And with that kind of conditioning , there is no way to re-condition him, he is too old.
Run, run veru far away from him.
2007-01-03 00:33:56 · answer #9 · answered by brandley_1999 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Mya be in the mid-life crisis range. Deal with it together
2007-01-03 02:12:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋