i had a gf who got married last year.i still miss her alot. she had to get married to other guy coz of family problem but we decided to stay friends atleast. when we were seeing each other we used to talk hours on fone daily but now she hardly calls me once in two months that too for 4-5 mins.
now my question is i guess she is soon gonna call me coz its almost two months. i got so many things to tell her but dont knw wat shud i tell her
shall i tell her that i miss her alot and love her. or shall i complain her that she is not calling me enough or caring for me. or shall i tell her abt wats happening or hpd in my life in this two months or wats happening at her side in two months or abt her marriage life or shall i ask her wat she did on 31st?
i want to say so many things but i knw she wont talk for more than 5 mins or so. so pls tell me wat shall i talk exactly before i hear that worst word "bye" frm her
2007-01-03 00:25:52 · 7 answers · asked by cuttienayan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
there is some misunderstanding i think. i m 100% sure i dont want to break her marriage i want to see her happy at cost of my life. i just want to be part of her life and a true true friend with no bad intention so pls dont think bad abt my true love n frdship
2007-01-03 00:37:32 · update #1
i got her number but i never call coz i knw she can be in problem she always call. n i dont want to say her gudbye forever i want to talk to her but wat shud i talk when she calls me this time
2007-01-03 00:43:36 · update #2
sad story..i'm sorry for what i'm going to say, but in two words "STOP DREAMING"...
Coz you're really living in a dream,that girl can't be yours,and if i were in your shoes i wouldn't answer the phone when she calls.
That doesnt help you!that's killing you,i'm too serious,that is the worst situation that can a guy live..especially a guy.
Please,listen,try to build your life,let your heart LOVE again.
There's nothing impossible,believe me..try to be strong,when she'll call next time,tell her to care about her husband,coz what she's doing is "Cheating on her husband"..
Mariage is carying,even if she doesnt love him!
See,she doesnt care about you,she just feels pity believe me..i swear God..
Think about it..good luck
2007-01-03 00:33:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,
Umm...just say something like this to her:
Hey...I know that you are married and that nothing can go on between us, but I feel that I have to say this. I love you and I miss you so much. I don't know how to get rid of these feelings. I love hearing your voice everyday, but I know that nothing can happen and that hurts me so much. I need a sense of closure, so until I lose these feelings for you I think that it is best that we don't speak anymore. I love you so much and I miss you! I guess that this means I must leave. Good-bye! I'm gonna miss talking to you, even if it's for only 5 minutes, but I guess this is how it has to be.
Just say that and then at the end just see how she reacts. You have to stop talking to her until you lose these feelings because she is married. Good Luck! ;)
2007-01-03 00:30:36 · answer #2 · answered by Texas <3 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How about "Goodbye, I've decided that it is healthier for me to move on with my life and stop desiring a married woman."
It doesn't matter what her reasons are for getting married. She is a married woman. Unless your intentions are pure. I mean you aren't hoping she divorces so you can have her. Your not being a friend. A friend would want to help her suceed in her marriage and her family. That might mean staying away.
2007-01-03 00:33:31 · answer #3 · answered by krzylove 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The shut your mouth and end this. If you dont want to break up her marriage, then leave her alone. Dont take any calls from her after you tell her good by and have a happy life with your husband. Whats so hard about that.
2016-05-22 22:33:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say this," Hey, I love you, and I can not keep putting myself in this position. I want you to be happy, so until I can speak to you without having feelings for you, I must say Good Bye fro now. Call me if you and your hubby do not work out. Love ya "
2007-01-03 00:45:40 · answer #5 · answered by kerbear7703 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is going to hurt but I think for both of your sakes you will have to be the one to say goodbye.
2007-01-03 00:30:12 · answer #6 · answered by vzhnri 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
STOP calling her she's married
2007-01-03 00:29:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋