Iam in love with one guy since 10yrs.I luve him so much,and at the same time iam very much afraid of my parents.How can i convince my parents.Our family is very traditional family.They arenot going to agree for my mariage.Its some what difficult.I just want to know that whether i will get married with that guy whom iam in love. And also i want to know that in which date,month and year i will get marry and with whom. I cant live with out him even for a single minute.I have already tried by telling some thing about my love but they became very serious on me.Thats why iam unable to express them about my love. He is a very nice person Iam very confident that my future will be exlent with him if i marry him.His family members are very cooperative with me and all of them liked me very much.The problem is with my side only. I cant cheat my parents anymore and also cant hide this matter any more. Please give me the solution .I will be waiting for your reply very eagerly.
Thanking You
Prassu
2007-01-03 00:09:26 · 6 answers · asked by Prasanna L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Prassu, I'm glad to read ur question. Really after a very long time, I've a "Girl's" so committed message. Keep it up.
Try this: Don't tell ur parents that u love your guy. Just behave that u don't know him or his family. Tell ur guy/his parents that u ppl want to marry. But this(afore said) is your problem. So, boy'z parents should express their interest for your marriage through some known one or relative.
This way, your parents won't feel bad. When ur parents will ask you, say what u want to say.
Always, be committed to ur objective, no matter how much you have to stressout, sweat out or what ever.
Don't tell ur parents straight, if they got angry, u will be in trouble i think ?
2007-01-03 03:54:54 · answer #1 · answered by Sunlight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are 10 years in love with this guy and this guy is 10 years in love with you... well that´s a long time you´re hiding your secret.
If you are full of age you can marry who you like. There is nobody who will stop you from doing what you want to do.
But it seems to me that the approval of your family is very important for you. If you don´t want to leave your family and live your own life (if they approve your choice or not) you must confront your parents with the fact that you are in love with this person. As you´ve said, his parents do collaborate, why don´t you ask his parents to meet yours and maybe the older generation can reach a positive agreement??
2007-01-03 00:24:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anita P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you now?
Traditions respect love and if your parents care for you then they will support you. If they don't then it is time you stand on your own feet and marry the person you love. Parents normally want their children to be happy, so if you are sure that you will be happy then go ahead. Parents may take some time to recover from the unexpected news but they will surely support you if the boy is of good standing.
The important issue is "Will your man stand by you if your parents oppose you?"
Best of luck
2007-01-03 00:58:36 · answer #3 · answered by StraightDrive 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would be wise to continue your education before you think about marriage. Take a course in English grammar first.
2007-01-03 00:20:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you????
To get married isn't like buying a McDonald's you know! I don't know what your culture are, but you should consider this matter very seriously.
2007-01-03 00:15:39 · answer #5 · answered by Clio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don compramise ur love for ur parents sake.. good luck
2007-01-03 01:04:40 · answer #6 · answered by sweetharts_01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋