i am in love with a man ,we are both married to each others best friends(sounds bad)we have had a connection for 7 years and in the last 7 months it has gotten physical.we are exactly alike,we feel our past connects us today.is that a crock?
2007-01-03 00:05:51 · 10 answers · asked by boopxoxo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You have to go with your heart. Alot of people will get hurt in this situation. But if you don't be honest soon things are going to get worse. Good Luck
2007-01-03 00:08:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's a total crock! So, you're attracted to each other how nice! Wonder if you're husband and his wife or doing it too. What you've done is formed a setting for a swingers lifestyle. Not hard to do if you're with this couple alot. This could lead to the 4 of you gettin' it on. You don't love this man. You just like the fact that he listens to your BS and has insider info. on you coming from the convos. he's had with your hubby. You best stop this fireball now... you'll create a massive mess here and will end up very sad! Best Wishes
2007-01-03 00:12:34 · answer #2 · answered by Hear2Help 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
could it be you are just getting excited by the thrill of something different and new.. its not the same ole same that your married to and get every day..
if you have a emotional feeling for this person this is somethign that you should have already discussed with you spouse because a emotional affair is 10X hurtful as a phyiscal one in my OP. because that means you are discuss and feeling safe and secure and loved more with this person than the one you vowed to love and support the rest of your lives..
yo should really get all this out in the open before things get worse.. either make the move and take action on this new emotion or.. forget it and live your life with your spouse.. but you will have to space yourself from this other person
2007-01-03 00:12:55 · answer #3 · answered by chrissy30753 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its never good to go back into ones past, as it messes up the here and now, and the future, as we get so wrapped up in the past love we can't work on our marriage. sure it's exciting and feels good but if we really left out spouse for them, would we really be satisfied with this person, or is it all fantasy, is it just illusion made up by us, to just justify what we are doing. our past is the past, and is only connected when we ourselves connect it, and make it more than it is. we pretend and tell ourselves all kinds of things, we read more into it than it actually is, we make it romantic, but in reality we are only fooling ourselves, and destroying the marriage we do have.
2007-01-03 00:52:19 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, i have had a past love as well i have been married to my husband for 12 years and my past love and me love each deeply,it got intamate many years ago , there r kids involved so theres nothing either one of us do , its very romantic what we have .i think its just meant to be this way ,maybe for you too my secret is it makes my own relationship romantic with my husband . it most likely would work out in the future with you two if there are any problams in your own relation ships if its meant to be it will happen don't push it . keep it romantic
2007-01-03 00:17:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone that wants to cheat can make up all kinds of excuse to do so, but it is still not right. so yes, you are a crock.
2007-01-03 00:09:45 · answer #6 · answered by m c 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One in the previous......and one in the present. My fiancee grew to become into killed some years in the past yet i grew to become into waiting to spend some great time with him till now he handed. And my boyfriend now could be this style of great guy who makes me have self assurance in the entire skill and magic of affection!
2016-10-29 21:33:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're both married and cheating...hmmm...doesn't sound so great to me. Who cares about "connections"?? You are MARRIED TO SOMEONE ELSE. Try having that "connection" with your husband.
2007-01-03 00:08:14 · answer #8 · answered by Heather C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep its a crock.
You are married to other people. Why did you marry other people and not each other?
Fess up and face the consequences of your actions.
2007-01-03 00:13:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anna K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the past stays in the past live for the here and now.
2007-01-03 00:42:22 · answer #10 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋