scratching that is drawing blood, does the man have the right to hit back one time to get her to stop? Or is he considered an abuser? I'm not talking about him beating her senseless, I'm talking about a single hit just to get her to stop.
2007-01-02 23:37:32 · 29 answers · asked by david419_2000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The woman is alot smaller than he is. But, she is violent to the extreme.
2007-01-02 23:38:21 · update #1
The man should call the police for domestic abuse and he should leave her and get far away from her! I personally think yes, he has the right to push or hit her to get her off of him..women have no more rights to be violent towards a partner than a man does.
2007-01-02 23:40:30 · answer #1 · answered by I heart pineapple soda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually many law enfocrement departments havea policy that states that the man must go to jail on ALL domestic calls. And if she is determined to be the offender she has to go too. But he still has to go.
I could tell you a real sad story about a guy in a wheelchair, but the femi-nazis would violate me.(I've told it before)
... I had a request to hear the story so I guess they can just violate me. Sorry, its a little long...
well I was working in a social services setting. But I was working under a grant for re-entering people into the workplace. Anyways this guy comes to me in a wheelchair and pulled me aside and asked if he could talk to me. He was wheelchair bound, very scrawny, very sad looking. Bones and mucles were in bad shape... So he tells me his wife was very abusive but the police would only laugh at him. He wanted to know if I could help kim somehow. I asked if he had tried the local shelter, CASA(Citizens Against Spouse Abuse). He said that when he called them they said they had no programs directed towards men. I didn't really have any answer to give him and still to this day don't know what the right recommendation would have been. I mean I know this sort of thing happens all the time, but I also know that public opinion has a very biased opinion that basically states that men are incapable of being abused.
I don't know the end of that story. I left that job a few months later and never heard from him again. I guess I am better off not knowing everything in life, but I'll always wonder.
2007-01-03 07:42:09 · answer #2 · answered by your_name_here 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is what you did to provoke such anger. if you didnt I would think she is depressed and probably would be termed as either manic depressive or bipolar. One thing is for sure she needs help.
Some people have deep rooted anger that comes from their childhood often caused by rejection or jealousy and envy and become depressed. Her depression could be related to hormones and is probably chemical or she has a demonic problem if non of the above are appropriate. Either way, I would take her to a clinical psychologist for assessment. Clearly there is a lot of disharmony in your home and you two are having problems that require therapy for both of you.
I know a personal friend who had similar symptoms with depression and medication definitely controls these episodes.
She has uncontrollable anger definitely. Have it seen to before someone is harmed. This is very important and I cannot stress this more to you how important it is not to leave this. If you are provoking her, then stop. Show her love and become accountable. Read the book Love and Respect by Dr Emerson Eggerichs. IT will explain a lot of what is possibly wrong with your marriage.
I hope that this is helpful and please I am not judging you but trying to point out what might be the causes for such extreme anger. Either way help is essential. Speak to your doctor first and let him do hormone tests etc.
2007-01-03 08:18:47 · answer #3 · answered by uniquechild 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This woman sounds like a real nut case. However a man should never hit a woman, under any circumstances. I guess he could perhaps give her just a tiny little shove to get her away and then get the hell out of there. I would ring the police as she has no right to hit a man and get away with it scott free either. Have her charged with assault but definitely stay right away from her.
2007-01-03 08:03:09 · answer #4 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has no right to attack the man. He doesn't have to put up with the violence (just because he's a man). He should get a protection order put out on her and leave her. If shes like that now she'll be like that when there are children around and then how many other lives will she ruin. Substitute the 'she' for 'he' and 'man' for 'woman', it's all the same abuse is abuse.
2007-01-03 08:03:36 · answer #5 · answered by vzhnri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the one being abused and you should get away from this relationship before you hurt her. You should never think about hitting a woman because your strength is greater that hers. She needs to get some sort of therapy to figure out why she has anger issues. In the law eyes if you hit her you are considered the abuser.
2007-01-03 07:46:57 · answer #6 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Knock her down, but don't hit her. She is abusing you and you need to call the cops. They will charge her with domestic violence. If you hit her back, you could go for domestic violence also. So just push her enough to keep her off of you until the cops get there and press charges. Maybe sitting in jail for a couple of days before she sees the judge will open her eyes and let her know that she's not going to get away with it. Then get away from her. You don't need someone like that in your life.
2007-01-03 07:57:53 · answer #7 · answered by leigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So she is like Mighty Mouse, huh? Well, I wouldn't hit or knock her out , but obviously you can hold her back or down from doing this can't you? And, yes..by golly leave this abusive relationship. You have every reason too...she needs anger management. Certainly not a situation anybody deserves to be in..sorry for you. Good Luck!
2007-01-03 08:07:55 · answer #8 · answered by Hear2Help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohhh, For your own safety I would not hit her. (not that she does not DESERVE it now) But if she is much smaller than you like you say, your one hit could do more damage then all her attacks and if the cops get there and see her bruised and bleeding Who do you think there going to arrest ?
If you hurt her in any way its gonna be a case of he said she said when it comes to who started what and who hit who first.
Get away from her and call the police and file charges against her. You will be the bigger person for not hitting back.
2007-01-03 07:55:05 · answer #9 · answered by just_trump_my_ace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you hit her once,you may be temped to hit her again.Your better off calling the cops,because she could turn the whole thing around to make it look like you were the one who started it.What she did is considered spousal abuse and you do have the right to report it.It's the same as if you were the one who did all of that.Your better off not hitting her at all.You may be the one going to jail.
2007-01-03 23:03:02 · answer #10 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋