He told me when he gave them to me that he just saw them and thought of me which is why he got them. My family think hes done something and feels guilty. what do you think?
2007-01-02 22:42:41 · 33 answers · asked by Unhinged.... 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Awww..... that's so sweet! There's nothing wrong with getting a gift from you boyfriend. Ask your family why they think it's wrong.
2007-01-02 22:49:23 · answer #1 · answered by butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't read too much into it at the moment. You don't know if anything is wrong. Why poke the bear? I suppose you trust each other, and would do anything for each other? Don't ever let family or anyone interfere in your relationship. Unless they have firm proof don't spoil what you have. Do you think he is guilty of something?...if so, confront him. But if you think this will spoil things between you then best leave things as they are, don't you think?
2007-01-02 22:52:47 · answer #2 · answered by Rico 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your family is questioning his motives? hmm seems to me you must be very young and shouldn't be dating in the first place or your family doesn't think much about you...you deserve flowers dont you? yeah i think you do and evidently your b/f does as well. dont let your family take away your self esteem...your worth the flowers and a whole lot more, I'm sure he was thinking about you and realized how happy and proud he was to have you call him his b/f. us guys will do this from time to time and that's really the best show of love and respect for our g/f's. be happy enjoy the flowers and remember he got them for the best reason of all...JUST BECAUSE...(you can finish the rest) YOUR SO SWEET...... YOU LAUGH AT HIS JOKES FUNNY OR NOT.....YOU CHOSE HIM FOR A B/F.....OR MAYBE JUST BECAUSE HE LOVES YOU...ETC..ETC....i'm sure you can think of many more great reasons and rightfully so cause he brought you flowers he could have spent his money on other things but, he chose to spend it on you....you go girl!!! put your hater blockers on while in the presence of your family (smile) they wish they were so lucky
2007-01-02 23:03:55 · answer #3 · answered by quietstorm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to worry you or anything but my ex fiencee used to buy me a massive bunch of flowers every friday for a year and a half until we broke up. It was only a little while ago I found out he was sleeping with one of my mates the whole time.
2007-01-02 22:48:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the type of guy he is. Its hard to say really.
My ex never bought me flowers and he did a whole lot wrong to me. My fella buys me flowers all the time but I know that it is just his way of showing that he is thinking of me when I am not with him.
2007-01-02 22:46:45 · answer #5 · answered by Liggy Lee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be your bf gave it to u because may be he had/have heard giving flowers impress the girlfriends and increases chance of giving kiss
2007-01-02 22:51:51 · answer #6 · answered by warblade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go with your feelings. It could very well be that he is just a thoughtful and sincere gentlemen. Very rare these days. However, very possible. Tell your family to stop being so negative, go with what your gut is telling you. God bless****
2007-01-02 22:46:10 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your family is reading too much into it and you should really listen to yourself and not others, including family, as some people can't stand others being happy!
2007-01-02 23:27:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your family to stick they're noses out - in a polite way, of course! He brought them for you because he loves and adores you!
Unless you personally have a reason to doubt him, don't bother listening to others...
2007-01-02 22:47:32 · answer #9 · answered by ஐ♥PinkBoo - TTC #1♥ஐ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its none of their business why he gave you flowers. They ought to be happy that you found a nice guy that thinks about you. Tell them he proposed to you.
2007-01-02 22:47:14 · answer #10 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋