I am 20 lack real job experience, no H.S diploma ...what do you recommend i do?

Question

I droped out of high school when i was 17 because of my friend...well at least i thought he was....he found out i was gay and ended up making up all these stories...that i would hit on him or i would try and touch him and so on....but it just got to a point where i just couldt handle it so i dropped out ....now live with parents, no job , low selfesteem / lack self confidence, and am constantly thinking about what other people are saying or think of me ....I'm just a mess...i need help........ I cant live with parents forever. Need to gain some kind of financial stability.....i need help....what do i do.......I'm scared........: (

Im in los angeles

Please no negative comments..... : (

Answer 1

All you need is a sense of security a real job where you can earn money.Stand on your own two feet.Most people will advise you to go back to school.Consider working with me but you will need to build up your confidence and self esteem.See my profile send me an e mail to [e-mail]

Answer 2

study up on ged course, you can get it done in a week. Its good your with your parents. But don't leach off of them. You do need a high school diploma if you want any job that pays the bills. For the mean time I would work as a dish washer or bag grocerys and really get your ged. I have a friend who did this and got in a week, and then because of your age you can find some type of finacial aid to go to community college.

Answer 3

Consider getting a GED, that will vastly help you for starters, second try to get a job, any job, even fast food, it will look better on an application later then nothing, and that guy who made fun of you is probably headed for a crappy life, someday he'll make fun of the wrong person. Consider counseling about your self esteem or talk to a friend or parents or something.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

Get your GED and then enroll in tech school or a community college. Maybe join a gay support group or something. And get a job, even part time, so that you're not isolated. Good luck, it will get better!

Answer 6

Go get your GED if you can. If not you can still get entry level jobs without a diploma but your pay will be very low. Im not gay but if I met someone that had the same problems as you I would accept them.

Answer 7

I recommend you seek a youth counselor for your overall well-being and then try to get into evening classes or something to get your GED. Also try to get any kind of general labor or service job to work at while studying. keep yourself busy during this time and you may feel your confidence & self esteem grow.

Answer 8

get your GED first. Then try to get into a community college. You don't have to be the smartest person in the world to succeed. You're 20 so you can easily turn your life around if you try.

Answer 9

You can try to get your GED and maybe enroll in a job corp, where you can get special training for a job. From there, start working, save money, and you will be on your feet and can move out on your own.

Try http://jobcorps.dol.gov/centers/CA.htm

Answer 10

Go back get your GED and then go to a junior college and learn a technical trait... If you dont want to go to college, then just get the GED and work as a bank teller at the bank...