hEYY guys . Iam 17 years old and i have a serious problem.I ****** a girl from about 2 months and now she tells me that she's pregnant !!! I was shocked,i didnt believe her,i went with her and she madxe another test,SHE WAS PREGNANT !!! I cant marry her now and i cant handle having a baby.IAm still young... wat do u think i should do??? plzz help
2007-01-02 21:19:13 · 14 answers · asked by Tello 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I would sit down with her and figure out what the best thing to do is. Does she want to keep it? I am sure she is having many of the same feelings that you are. Both of you together should go to an agency such as Planned Parenthood to discuss options available to you. This is huge so you both should also talk to your parents to find out what kind of support they would provide you. You have a responsibility to help her through this, and for the rest of your life if you both decide to keep it. Good luck to you and next time wear protection
2007-01-02 21:30:19 · answer #1 · answered by w2kaad 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well this is exactly what can happen when you have sex. Now you have to grow up and take responsibilty for your actions. Talk to both parents and work out what to do. DONT leave it all up to her. Be a man. Everything will work out for the best in the end. Good Luck you have a tough road ahead but not as tough as your girlfriend.
2007-01-02 21:23:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You, unfortunately, can't do anything now. Stop having unprotected sex. Or better yet stop having sex until you ARE ready for the consequences. Sorry. The ball's in her court. If she wants to keep the baby you are now going to be paying child-support for 18 years. Makes you think twice about casual sex, huh?
2007-01-02 21:23:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey. The waters may be deep, but you're not drowning yet. First off, go with her to the doctors to verify she is pregnant. Secondly, make sure it is yours. (Paternity test, if it comes down to it). Third, discuss abortion, if your morals allow it. Fourth .... well, it is time to come clean to the parents. Do NOT try to sneak out of it in the end...
2007-01-02 21:27:27 · answer #4 · answered by Brad P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This makes me so angry.This is what happens when you have unprotected sex. So what? You need to support the girl as you are the father. Get a job and pay the girl money.
2007-01-02 21:26:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have kept your snake in your pants ...it happens if you cant handle a kid you shouldnt be fooling around in the first place .. i would just give her support you dont have to marry her just be a support help her buy things and help baby sit ..its your kid you need to take the responablity
i got pregnant at 17 and i got threw it you can to!
2007-01-02 21:29:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being a selfish looser and think of her too. You want to go around having sex with everyone then you should be prepared for the consequences.
2007-01-02 21:28:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should have kept your balls in your pants in the first place but since you already got her pregnant then you should mature and face the consequences.........come to an agreement with her and ask her what are her plans..........tell her yours........then you two come up with a sole plan...........maybe she doesn't want to keep it.........maybe she does...........and if she does then its your responsibility to be there for that child that didn't asked to be brought to this world..................good luck!!!!
2007-01-02 21:24:10 · answer #8 · answered by saray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure it won't ruin your life. Grow up and take some responsiblity for your actions.
2007-01-02 22:41:18 · answer #9 · answered by Ricecakes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you cant handle a baby, you shouldnt have done the deed. however, since you did, you need to man up and take care of your baby
2007-01-02 21:36:44 · answer #10 · answered by dixiegirl687 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋