how can i boost my husband who has a very low sex drive?

Question

well.. i'm not really complaining, but sometimes, he just refuses to do it with me. is there a way to better seduce him without me doing something over the top?

i'm 5'4, 110 lbs. proportioned properly, even though i laready have a baby.

Answer 1

there are times in a mans life when they get like this he might be under a lot of stress with work and a kid a man wont say things like stress they always say they are fine and usually the sex drive is the first thing it affects just try and reduce the amount of stress he has at home

Answer 2

Does your husband see someone else, or he get it somewhere else? You'd better make sure...
It happens to my friend's husband, he stopped having sex with her, after baby was born.
Later on, they have serious talk, and he confessed he actually hookup with his ex-Gf for awhile during her final months of baby pregnancy. He found more thrills in it, and he was stressed out with the newborn baby situation. She forgave him, and they are doing marriage counseling.

Most men doesn't refuse sex invitation, they will do it anyway.
A good long session if he really wants it from you. Or a boring quickie session if his mind on (jobs, family problems) something else.
Just talk to him in calm tone, and if he said something upset you, don't fly off the handle if you want to save the marriage.
Good luck!

Answer 3

most woman expect the man to have the sex drive they expect him to take the top expect him to do all the work while she just lays there enjoying it all. But a few men like the woman to do all the work in bed, you might want to think about taking the top and taking control of the sex drive. Some people like to drive while others like to ride. but if you ever want to get any where somebody's got to do the driving.

Answer 4

Well, normally as a guy gets older his sex drive diminishes. But depends on a lot of things for men. One, What kind of job does he have. If it is long, hours and he comes home tired, he may not feel the urge too much. Two. Consider, another woman too. Try to check his underwear and clothes for unusual fragrances. He may be dipping his wick somewhere else. Three, he may be turning gay, You never know. lol Four Try viagra

Answer 5

My friend said that after a baby comes the daddy want to see other ladies around the streets cuz its boring in the house with same lady so you can get a face transplant in France and then looks super new and fresh and he will get happy too like being with a sort of new and improved lady so thats an idea worth thinking about quickly and seriously too.

Answer 6

Get a make over , high light your hair, new hair style, then stop and buy a skimpy outfit,

Answer 7

Take him for a vacation and see if there is any improvement. If yes, the cause is that he is not able to relax.

Answer 8

To tell you the truth..Ive been wondering the same thing with my fiance..lol..ive tried dressing different or in the stuff he likes and everything else..so im really not sure about that one.lol

Answer 9

there are too many ways:-
1- wear properly for him, tight sexy whities.....
2- make him eat high protein content foods at night, with some pipper on it, plus fishes r rich with phosphorus., u can put in his food sexual stimulants ( from pharmacy )
3- control his mind always by telling sexy naughty jokes....
4- start to surprise him suddenly by sex massage, stand on his back by your foot, u must know what type his fetishes?


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Answer 10

first check he has no problem on job or health.talk with him on his interests and topics.try to show him your breasts and other sexy parts of body.