for women Thoughts after finding out you were pregnant?

Question

When you first found out you(for the women only) were pregnant what were the thoughts that came to your head? and why?

Answer 1

I cried!!! I was so happy!! I had been calling the clinic to try and get my results and every time I called, the right people weren't in the office. Then finally they called me back and said the test was positive!!! I started crying on the phone and the lady asked if this was a good thing. I could barely talk because of crying and I muttered 'yes' to her. My husband walked in and we just cried together for about 5 minutes!! I was about 6 or 7 weeks pregnant. Still very, very early; but we went ahead and told everyone!! They were all so happy, especially my in-laws because this is their first grandchild. My parents were also very happy, but this is their 22nd grandchild (I have a really large family). Now our little boy will be here is just a couple of weeks!!

Answer 2

Good question. I have three children, and only one of them we actually planned for. The first time I found out I was pregnant, she was not planned, but I was over the moon, carrying life inside you is a very special thing and I felt blesses. My second pregnancy was planned, but when I actually found out I was pregnant I went into shock as it happened in the first month, then I wondered "Have we made the right choose to have another baby now". It took me a while to get use to it, but I think if you have had a baby before, you know what to expect, and remember the pain of the labour so your a bit more nervous. My third pregnancy was unplanned, and was a shock as we had been so careful, but after the initial shock I felt blesses because I already had two perfect healthy children, and to be blessed with another when some women cant have any, even though we had been careful, was really special.

Answer 3

I was in shock really. It had taken 4 years for my husband and I to get pregnant with our first child. This second time (I'm 28 weeks pregnant right now), it only took us a month! Both my husband and I couldn't believe it. We even called the doctor back to verify the results of the blood test (LOL)! After the initial shock was over, of course I was excited, nervous, etc. -- pretty much feeling a little bit of everything.

Answer 4

Could me and my honey afford to support/raise this child financially/responsibly? - It's a big decision to have kids. You need money to support them, insurance, a good paying job. You can't get rid of them you got to make sure you're emotionally and financially ready to take on a family. You lose freedoms as well - no going out, out to dinner or a movie, the first year or so you have a few hours of sleep, vacations are a litttle harder to do since you have a small child...

Answer 5

oh hell no this cant be right.
test again.
this ones gotta be wrong to
test again
no way.
6 tests total and i still didnt believe it was positive.
i admittidly was not very pleased at the concept. my baby was just about 4 months old, we had lost his twin two months before. i was breastfeeding had'nt gotten my period back and my BF had a vasectomy 30 yrs prior.
i really was not a happy camper. im fine with it now, but took me a bit of time

Answer 6

Scared then Happy. The reason i felt that way is because I was still living at home. Wasn't married yet. We had been engaged for 9mo. Didn't know how are families would react.

Answer 7

firtst thought - aaagggghhhhh
second thought - coooool
thrid thought - what now

current thought - I want it over, im fed up with back ache and depression, but loving its wiggly fish movements

Answer 8

Shocked, nervous, excited...

My sweet boy was a surprise. A pleasant one... but a definite surprise.